The Latest from Nutters Club /on-air/nutters-club/rss 九一星空无限 Tune into The Nutters Club with Hamish Williams and Kyle MacDonald, 11pm-1am Sundays. Keep up with the latest news and developments from New Zealand and th Wed, 03 Dec 2025 01:23:43 Z en Anton Blank: A Journey of Identity, Addiction, and Resilience /on-air/nutters-club/audio/anton-blank-a-journey-of-identity-addiction-and-resilience/ /on-air/nutters-club/audio/anton-blank-a-journey-of-identity-addiction-and-resilience/ Anton Blank, a writer, researcher, and former social worker, shared his deeply personal journey of navigating identity, addiction, and recovery, offering a powerful insight into the challenges of growing up feeling different and finding purpose through adversity. Born in New Zealand to a Māori mother and a Swiss father, Blank’s childhood was shaped by a unique blend of cultures. ​Raised in a predominantly Māori community, he was acutely aware of his “otherness,” stemming from his father’s European heritage and his own early awareness of being gay. ​Growing up in the 1960s and 70s, Blank struggled with feelings of isolation and shame, as societal acceptance of LGBTQ+ identities was virtually nonexistent. ​His parents, both educators and creative thinkers, provided a nurturing yet unconventional upbringing, which further set him apart from his peers. ​ As a young adult, Blank found a sense of belonging in the gay community, but this came with exposure to substance use. ​Alcohol and drugs became a way to escape the shame and anxiety he had carried since childhood. ​While initially offering relief, his substance use escalated, eventually leading to addiction. ​By his late 30s, Blank’s life began to unravel, and the arrival of methamphetamine in Wellington marked a dangerous turning point. ​It wasn’t until he was arrested for drug possession in his mid-40s that he realized the severity of his addiction and decided to seek help. Blank’s recovery journey was long and complex. ​He sought support through counseling and mental health services, where he learned to manage his depression and anxiety. ​Medication and simple strategies, such as planning his days and focusing on self-care, played a crucial role in his healing. ​Ultimately, he found lasting support in a 12-step program, which provided him with a framework for sobriety, spirituality, and personal growth. Now in recovery, Blank has dedicated his life to social justice and advocacy. ​His work as a writer and researcher focuses on addressing systemic racism, implicit bias, and inequality, particularly within Māori communities. Drawing from his own experiences, he aims to inspire change and foster understanding through his creative and professional endeavors. ​ Blank’s story is one of resilience and transformation, highlighting the importance of self-love, acceptance, and finding purpose. ​His journey serves as a beacon of hope for those facing similar struggles, proving that recovery and personal growth are possible, even in the face of profound challenges. Thu, 27 Nov 2025 03:51:37 Z The self-perpetutating Men’s mental health movement /on-air/nutters-club/audio/the-self-perpetutating-men-s-mental-health-movement/ /on-air/nutters-club/audio/the-self-perpetutating-men-s-mental-health-movement/ Warren Phillip, the General Manager of Essentially Men, experienced a personal journey of transformation, that coupled with the importance of mental health support for men has seen his work impact countless others. Speaking about his experience, Warren revealed how attending a retreat with his son over a decade ago became a turning point in his life, helping him confront his emotions and improve his relationships. Warren described his life before the retreat as one focused on career success, where he worked long hours as a Chief Financial Officer, often at the expense of his family relationships.  Feeling disconnected from his wife and children, he realised he needed to make a change. ​ His first step was attending a week-long retreat organised by Essentially Men, a program designed to help men connect with their emotions and build meaningful relationships. Initially skeptical, Warren found the experience transformative, as it introduced him to the concept of sharing his feelings in a safe and supportive environment. The retreat led Warren to participate in additional workshops and eventually join the organisation’s service team, where he supported other men on their journeys. ​Over time, he became deeply involved in the community, which fosters trust, active listening, and vulnerability among its members. ​This involvement helped him integrate the lessons learned into his daily life, leading to stronger relationships with his family and a deeper sense of self-awareness. ​ Warren’s story highlights the growing need for mental health support among men, particularly younger generations. ​He noted a shift in the age of participants attending Essentially Men workshops, with more men in their mid-30s seeking help compared to the mid-40s demographic seen in previous years. ​This change reflects a broader societal trend of increased awareness and reduced stigma surrounding mental health issues. ​ Essentially Men’s flagship program, “Men Being Real,” offers a weekend retreat followed by seven weeks of integration sessions. These sessions help participants apply the tools they’ve learned to their everyday lives. ​ Many men go on to form independent support groups, fostering long-term connections and providing a safe space to share their experiences. ​ Warren’s journey from a high-powered corporate career to leading Essentially Men underscores the importance of prioritising mental health and relationships. His story serves as a powerful reminder that seeking help and embracing vulnerability can lead to profound personal growth and stronger connections with loved ones. ​ Tue, 18 Nov 2025 03:42:00 Z How to find resilience ​with ongoing mental health challenges /on-air/nutters-club/audio/how-to-find-resilience-with-ongoing-mental-health-challenges/ /on-air/nutters-club/audio/how-to-find-resilience-with-ongoing-mental-health-challenges/ In the latest episode of The Nutters Club, host Hamish Williams and psychotherapist Kyle McDonald delved into the critical topics of perseverance, resilience, and mental health. This week’s discussion cantered on the importance of developing resilience and the ability to persevere through difficult times. ​With the cost of living rising and many facing job insecurity, the conversation explored how individuals can sustain their mental health and push through adversity. With the help of callers and testers to the show Williams and McDonald explored how individuals can sustain their mental health and push through adversity. McDonald emphasised the significance of maintaining a healthy lifestyle, staying connected with others, and addressing challenges head-on rather than avoiding them. He noted that procrastination often exacerbates difficulties, as the anticipation of a task can feel more overwhelming than the task itself. ​ Listeners contributed their personal experiences and insights, adding depth to the conversation. One caller shared a quote from Mark Twain: “If it’s your job to eat a frog, it’s best to do it first thing in the morning. ​And if it’s your job to eat two frogs, it’s best to eat the biggest one first.” This advice resonated with the audience and sparked a discussion on tackling difficult tasks early to make the rest of the day feel more manageable. ​ Another caller, Jay, shared his journey of overcoming a fear of social interaction by actively engaging with strangers and making an effort to connect. His story highlighted the power of small actions, such as smiling and initiating conversations, in fostering a sense of community and improving mental well-being. ​ The episode also touched on the importance of seeking support during times of grief and loss. ​ A listener shared her experience of coping with the recent death of her son’s childhood friend, emphasising the need for open communication and professional help. McDonald recommended resources such as the Mental Health Foundation’s support groups and the Citizens Advice Bureau for those seeking assistance. The show concluded with a reminder of the importance of reaching out for help when struggling with mental health challenges. Williams encouraged listeners to utilise services like the 24/7 mental health helpline, 1737, and to remember that “the world’s a better place with you in it.” ​ The Nutters Club continues to provide a platform for meaningful conversations about mental health, offering support and guidance to listeners across New Zealand and beyond. ​ Thanks to New Zealand on Air for their support in making this content. Mon, 10 Nov 2025 20:34:31 Z The mental health crisis that lead to med school: Dr Carlton Irving /on-air/nutters-club/audio/the-mental-health-crisis-that-lead-to-med-school-dr-carlton-irving/ /on-air/nutters-club/audio/the-mental-health-crisis-that-lead-to-med-school-dr-carlton-irving/ Dr. Carlton Irving’s life story is a testament to resilience, determination, and the power of purpose. ​ From a challenging childhood marked by frequent moves and financial struggles, to becoming an advanced paramedic and eventually a doctor, his journey is one of overcoming adversity and striving to make a difference. Born in Ōpōtiki, Dr. Irving grew up in various neighbourhoods, often facing tough circumstances. ​Despite his challenging upbringing, he developed a strong sense of purpose, inspired by his grandfather, a hardworking engineer and minister who instilled in him the value of service to others. ​ This early influence shaped his desire to care for people, leading him to pursue a career in paramedicine. Dr. Irving’s path was far from conventional. ​As a high school dropout, he faced significant barriers but found his way into the ambulance service, where he worked tirelessly to save lives. His experiences as a paramedic exposed him to the harsh realities of poverty and the impact of socioeconomic factors on health outcomes. These encounters fuelled his passion for improving healthcare access and addressing systemic inequalities. ​ After years of witnessing trauma and loss, including the deaths of many young patients, Dr. Irving reached a breaking point. ​The emotional toll of his work led to a mental health crisis, culminating in a failed suicide attempt. ​This pivotal moment prompted him to seek professional help, where he learned to process his experiences and rebuild his mental health. ​ Determined to make a broader impact, Dr. Irving decided to pursue medical school at the age of 38. ​Despite the financial and personal challenges, including working full-time while studying, he graduated as a doctor in 2024. His journey has inspired many, proving that it’s never too late to chase your dreams. ​ Now, Dr. Irving is focused on transforming healthcare in New Zealand. He advocates for creating pathways to train more doctors from underserved communities, particularly rural and Māori populations, to address disparities in health outcomes. ​He believes in embedding cultural safety into medical training and practice, ensuring that healthcare professionals can build trust and connect with diverse communities. ​ Dr. Irving’s story is a powerful reminder that resilience, purpose, and a commitment to learning can overcome even the most daunting obstacles. His vision for a more inclusive and accessible healthcare system is a beacon of hope for the future. ​ Thu, 06 Nov 2025 20:55:47 Z The challenges and triumphs of living with schizophrenia /on-air/nutters-club/audio/the-challenges-and-triumphs-of-living-with-schizophrenia/ /on-air/nutters-club/audio/the-challenges-and-triumphs-of-living-with-schizophrenia/ Richard Anderson, born in Wellington and now residing on the Kapiti Coast, Anderson shared his experiences with schizophrenia, psychosis, depression, and anxiety, shedding light on the challenges and triumphs of living with mental illness. ​ Anderson first noticed signs of mental health struggles in his late teens, describing his initial experiences as "spiritual" before they evolved into psychosis. ​He recounted believing he was Jesus Christ and later an Egyptian god, which gave him a sense of purpose but eventually led to a difficult reality check. ​By 2007, after moving to Dunedin and then Christchurch, he faced isolation, workplace challenges, and a deteriorating mental state, culminating in suicidal ideation and a suicide attempt. ​Fortunately, he sought help and was connected with mental health professionals who provided support and understanding. ​ Returning to Wellington, Anderson began treatment with antipsychotic medication, regular psychiatric consultations, and community mental health services. He credits these interventions, along with connection and purpose, for helping him rebuild his life." ​Work, whether paid or unpaid, gives me purpose and gets me up in the morning," he said, emphasising the importance of staying engaged and connected. ​ A key part of Anderson’s recovery has been his involvement with Amigos, a Wellington-based peer support group founded by Jane Lowry. Amigos offers a variety of activity and café groups, including creative writing, mindfulness meditation, guitar, fishing, and movement classes. ​The organisation also hosts social events like barbecues and movie nights, fostering connection and community among its members. ​ Anderson highlighted the importance of belonging to a supportive network, saying, "Just that connection is what you need." ​ Amigos has become a vital resource for many, with over 260 people participating in its activities in the past year. ​The group provides a safe space for individuals to explore hobbies, build relationships, and reintegrate into society. ​Anderson praised the welcoming and kind atmosphere created by the group’s leaders and members. ​ For those in the Wellington area seeking support, Amigos can be found online at their website, Amigos Peer Support New Zealand. Mon, 27 Oct 2025 23:54:01 Z From alcoholic addiction to theatre producer and lawyer /on-air/nutters-club/audio/from-alcoholic-addiction-to-theatre-producer-and-lawyer/ /on-air/nutters-club/audio/from-alcoholic-addiction-to-theatre-producer-and-lawyer/ Elizabeth, a recovering alcoholic and creator of the stage play REHAB, shared her inspiring journey of overcoming addiction and finding purpose on 九一星空无限talk ZB’s The Nutters Club. Now 16 years sober, Elizabeth reflected on her struggles with alcohol addiction, her path to recovery, and her efforts to break the stigma surrounding addiction. ​ Born in Christchurch and raised in East Auckland, Elizabeth began drinking at the age of 15 after her parents’ separation and a school change left her feeling lost and uncomfortable in her own skin. Alcohol provided a sense of relief, but her drinking quickly escalated into an obsession. ​ By her late teens, she was drinking during the day and experiencing blackouts. ​ At university, where drinking was normalised, her addiction worsened, leading to daily drinking and even consuming alcohol before morning lectures. ​ Despite her struggles, Elizabeth managed to complete her Bachelor of Communications degree, but her addiction continued to spiral. By her early twenties, she realised the toll her drinking had taken on her relationships, health, and career. ​ After several failed attempts to quit, including detox diets and recovery meetings, Elizabeth finally sought help at a residential rehab facility. There, she found solace in the therapeutic community model, which provided a safe space for vulnerability and growth. ​The strict rules and group therapy sessions helped her confront her addiction and begin the process of healing. Elizabeth’s recovery journey wasn’t without challenges. ​ After getting sober, she developed an eating disorder, which she addressed using the tools and principles she learned in rehab. ​ She credits her recovery community for providing the support and encouragement she needed to overcome her struggles. ​ Since achieving sobriety, Elizabeth has accomplished remarkable milestones, including becoming a mother, retraining as a lawyer, and working as a criminal defence attorney. ​ She also created Rehab, a stage play that sheds light on addiction and recovery, aiming to reduce stigma and inspire others to seek help. ​The play, which debuted in 2021, has been performed multiple times and is set for its seventh season at Auckland’s Pumphouse Theater. Elizabeth’s story demonstrates the power of resilience, community, and the possibility of transformation. ​For those seeking help, she recommends reaching out to local services such as Community Alcohol and Drug Services (CADS), Alcoholics Anonymous (AA), or residential rehab facilities like Higher Ground and the Salvation Army’s Bridge program. REHAB tickets available here. Tue, 21 Oct 2025 04:18:00 Z From addiction to academics: A life found through recovery /on-air/nutters-club/audio/from-addiction-to-academics-a-life-found-through-recovery/ /on-air/nutters-club/audio/from-addiction-to-academics-a-life-found-through-recovery/ Dave Burnside, a former addict and ex-offender, has transformed his life from one of crime and addiction to becoming a highly effective advocate for recovery and community support. Dave shared his journey, beginning with a troubled childhood marked by neglect, substance abuse, and crime, and after entering recovery experiencing  in a string of academic and professional successes. Born in 1959, Dave grew up in Auckland, in a household plagued by dysfunction. With a father who was a functioning alcoholic and a mother struggling to raise three children, Dave began drinking at the age of eight and was exposed to drugs and crime through his older brother’s association with motorcycle gangs. ​By his teenage years, he was entrenched in a life of substance abuse and criminal activity, leading to convictions and time spent in boys’ homes, borstal institutions, and adult prisons. ​ Dave described the impact of incarceration on his identity, noting how he adopted a tough persona to survive. ​However, his life took a pivotal turn during a drug treatment program at Springhill Prison, where he encountered a mentor who inspired him to embrace recovery. “He lit the spark of hope,” Dave said, recalling how the mentor’s transformation motivated him to change his own life. ​ Since his release, Dave has dedicated himself to helping others navigate addiction and recovery. ​He is now the lived experience lead at Odyssey House, an organisation specialising in addiction rehabilitation, and works with various groups, including the Salvation Army and New Zealand Corrections. He also lectures on addiction and recovery, drawing on his personal experiences to educate and inspire. Dave emphasised the importance of community and connection in recovery, advocating for activities and support networks that foster belonging and purpose. ​He highlighted the role of peer support, recovery groups, and alternative activities like motocross and paintball as transformative tools for those battling addiction. Listeners praised Daves candidness and resilience, with many sharing their own struggles with addiction. One caller, Alex, expressed his ongoing battle with alcohol, while another, Peter, recounted his relapse after decades of sobriety. ​Dave encouraged them to keep trying, emphasising that recovery is a continuous process. ​ Daves story is a testament to the power of hope, connection, and redemption. ​As he continues to work with marginalised communities, he remains committed to helping others find their path to recovery and reclaim their lives.  Mon, 13 Oct 2025 00:59:50 Z What The Nutters Club wants you to be aware of /on-air/nutters-club/audio/what-the-nutters-club-wants-you-to-be-aware-of/ /on-air/nutters-club/audio/what-the-nutters-club-wants-you-to-be-aware-of/ Mental Health Awareness Week has prompted a wave of discussions about the importance of mental health and practical strategies for improving wellbeing. ​The Nutters Club took the eve of the week to explore various approaches, from mindfulness to community connection, with listeners sharing personal insights and experiences of what they would like New Zealanders to be most aware of during this years awareness week. The show highlighted the significance of small, everyday actions in fostering mental health. ​ Many callers emphasised the power of simple gestures, such as greeting strangers, smiling, or engaging in light conversation. ​These small acts of connection, they argued, can have a profound impact on both the giver and receiver. ​ One caller, a personal trainer, underscored the mental health benefits of physical activity, particularly weight training. He explained how exercise releases endorphins, the brain’s “feel-good” hormones, and provides a mental escape from daily stressors. ​ Another listener shared how repairing items and gardening offered a sense of accomplishment and mindfulness. ​ The Mental Health Foundation’s “Five Ways to Wellbeing” framework—give, connect, be active, keep learning, and take notice—was frequently referenced as a practical guide. It was also noted that activities like joining run clubs, reading books, or even watching uplifting movies align with these principles and can significantly enhance mental health. ​ Gratitude emerged as a recurring theme. ​Several participants shared how starting the day by reflecting on things they’re thankful for helps set a positive tone. ​However, Psychotherapist Kyle MacDonald cautioned that while self-directed strategies like gratitude and mindset shifts are valuable, they should not be imposed on others who may be struggling. ​ The show also addressed the challenges of systemic issues, such as access to mental health services. One caller highlighted the need for better support for individuals in emergency housing or those with complex needs, emphasising the importance of listening without judgment. Listeners were reminded that mental health struggles are diverse and that solutions must be tailored to individual circumstances. ​For those feeling overwhelmed, reaching out to professionals or helplines like 1737 was encouraged. ​ The discussions underscored the importance of community, empathy, and taking proactive steps to support mental health. As one caller aptly put it, “Treat everyone as you would someone with a broken arm—compassionately and without judgment.” ​ Mon, 06 Oct 2025 21:49:08 Z Australian Author Opens Up About Mental Health Journey /on-air/nutters-club/audio/australian-author-opens-up-about-mental-health-journey/ /on-air/nutters-club/audio/australian-author-opens-up-about-mental-health-journey/ Australian journalist and published author Jonathon ‘J.Mo’ Moran, shared his personal journey through mental health struggles, his upbringing in Canberra, and his path to becoming a journalist. J.Mo, who recently published “Mental as Anyone”, reflected on his experiences growing up with a bipolar mother and navigating his own mental health challenges. Born in Canberra, he described the city as a place of roundabouts, coffee culture, and political decision-making. ​ Despite its charm, his childhood was marked by financial struggles and the emotional toll of his mother’s illness. ​ “She was amazing, my best friend, but there was a lot of darkness,” he said, recalling her bouts of depression and hospitalisations. ​These challenges shaped his early years, leaving him grappling with his own mental health by his late teens. ​ At 20, J.Mo faced a series of life-altering events, including a breakup, confronting an abuser, and a mental health crisis that led to hospitalisation. ​ Diagnosed with severe depression and PTSD, he described his time in the psych ward as both freeing and transformative. ​ “It was a relief to be seen and understood,” he said, noting the stigma surrounding mental health at the time. ​Craft sessions and medication provided a sense of stability, though he admitted the journey was far from over. ​ Determined to build himself a life on his terms, J.Mo moved to Melbourne, where he found employment and indulged in the city’s vibrant nightlife. “I partied a lot, took lots of drugs, and drank, but it was a way to let off steam,” he said. ​ Despite the challenges, he remained focused on his goal of completing his journalism degree. ​After a year in Melbourne, he returned to Canberra, where he graduated and began his career. J.Mo first journalism role was with Australian Associated Press, working in the press gallery at Parliament House. While he initially doubted his abilities, the opportunity allowed him to hone his skills and gain confidence. “I wanted to be a serious foreign correspondent, but I was plagued with self-doubt,” he admitted. ​ Now considered Australia’s leading entertainment writer at The Daily Telegraph, J.Mo uses his platform to advocate for mental health awareness, drawing from his own experiences to inspire others. ​His book “Mental as Anyone” is was published earlier this year and available wherever good books are sold, and his podcast “Mental As Anyone with J.Mo” updates with new episodes weekly. Mon, 29 Sept 2025 00:23:05 Z The Importance of Relationships for Mental Health /on-air/nutters-club/audio/the-importance-of-relationships-for-mental-health/ /on-air/nutters-club/audio/the-importance-of-relationships-for-mental-health/ On this weeks 九一星空无限talkZB’s The Nutters Club, host Hamish Williams and psychotherapist Kyle MacDonald delved into the critical role relationships play in mental health. The show featured callers sharing personal stories, challenges, and triumphs, highlighting the complexities and rewards of human connection. MacDonald emphasised that relationships are foundational to emotional well-being, citing connection and community as key elements. ​He explained that close relationships, whether romantic, familial, or friendships, provide essential support during life’s struggles. ​ Conversely, difficulties in relationships, such as betrayal or trust issues, can significantly impact mental health, leading to feelings of instability and loneliness. ​ Several callers shared poignant experiences. Susie recounted how family therapy during her mother’s rehabilitation from alcoholism transformed their strained relationship into a loving bond. ​ She credited the Al-Anon program for helping her rebuild connections with her siblings. Another caller, Bronny, spoke about the challenges of trust and the importance of setting boundaries in relationships, particularly after experiencing trauma. She stressed the need for self-belief and self-care as a foundation for healthy connections. ​ The discussion also touched on loneliness, which is increasingly prevalent despite the rise of digital connectivity. ​MacDonald noted that loneliness stems from the absence of meaningful relationships and can be detrimental to mental health. ​He encouraged listeners to take proactive steps to build connections, even if it requires vulnerability and effort. ​ A recurring theme was the importance of self-love and self-awareness. ​One caller, Lola, reflected on her struggles with forming relationships after losing her mother at a young age. ​ Despite her challenges, she found fulfilment in helping others and emphasised the value of believing in oneself. ​Another caller, Jay, shared his approach to combating loneliness by actively engaging with people daily, creating new friendships and spreading positivity. The show concluded with practical advice on navigating relationships, including the importance of communication, setting boundaries, and addressing issues like financial stress. MacDonald highlighted that relationships require effort but are ultimately worth it, as they enrich lives and protect against mental health challenges like depression and anxiety. ​ Listeners were reminded that while relationships can be complex, they are vital for emotional resilience and personal growth. By fostering connection and practicing empathy, individuals can build stronger, healthier relationships that enhance their overall well-being. ​ Mon, 22 Sept 2025 23:16:38 Z Breaking the silence of addiction caused by grief /on-air/nutters-club/audio/breaking-the-silence-of-addiction-caused-by-grief/ /on-air/nutters-club/audio/breaking-the-silence-of-addiction-caused-by-grief/ Guest Hamish, a 47-year-old biotechnology graduate from Auckland, has shared his deeply personal journey of battling addiction, depression, and grief. Sharing his story with Hamish Williams and Psychotherapist Kyle MacDonald on The Nutters Club, he sheds light on the complexities of mental health and the transformative power of vulnerability, community, and self-reflection. Born in Hong Kong and raised in West Auckland, Hamish excelled academically and professionally, earning a degree in biotechnology from the University of Auckland. ​However, beneath the surface of his outward success, he struggled with unresolved grief following the death of his mother at age 20. ​Hamish revealed that he never processed this loss, which contributed to years of depression and addictive behaviors. Hamish’s addiction reached a breaking point which led to marriage counseling, individual therapy, and participation in a 12-step program, which he credits as life-changing. ​“I had never experienced an environment where I could say anything, share anything, and be emotional without judgment,” he said. ​The program helped him develop true friendships and embrace vulnerability, which he now sees as a cornerstone of his recovery. ​ Despite his struggles, Hamish has found purpose in sharing his experiences to help others. ​He openly discusses his mental health challenges on platforms like LinkedIn and has supported individuals in crisis, including a colleague contemplating suicide. ​“If I can help even one person, then what I’ve been through isn’t all for nothing,” he said. ​ Hamish’s recovery has been marked by significant milestones and ​he now focuses on building healthy habits, such as regular exercise, therapy, journaling, and spending time with his children. He also emphasizes the importance of sitting with emotions and finding meaning in life, drawing inspiration from Viktor Frankl’s book Man’s Search for Meaning. ​ While Hamish acknowledges that recovery is a lifelong process, he is beginning to rediscover a passion for life. ​ “I’m starting to develop a purpose again,” he shared. ​ His story serves as a powerful reminder that mental health challenges do not discriminate and that vulnerability and connection can pave the way to healing. That even in the darkest moments, there is always hope. Wed, 17 Sept 2025 01:28:01 Z Fundraising for improv programme to boost kids' Mental Health /on-air/nutters-club/audio/fundraising-for-improv-programme-to-boost-kids-mental-health/ /on-air/nutters-club/audio/fundraising-for-improv-programme-to-boost-kids-mental-health/ A groundbreaking initiative aimed at improving the mental health of New Zealand’s youth is gaining momentum. ​ Wade Jackson, founder of Covert Theatre in Ponsonby, Auckland, has developed the "Resilience Playground," a program that combines improvisational theatre techniques with principles of positive psychology to equip children with essential life skills. The Resilience Playground targets children aged 8 to 12, a critical age before they transition to high school. ​The program uses exercises from improv theatre—similar to the style seen in long running TV show "Whose Line Is It Anyway?" ​—to teach mindfulness, confidence, emotional intelligence, and resilience. ​According to Jackson, improv fosters connection, creativity, and the ability to navigate ambiguity, all while encouraging children to embrace their individuality and maintain their sense of playfulness. ​ The program has been trialed in schools across New Zealand, receiving overwhelmingly positive feedback. ​ To expand its reach, Jackson and his team have recorded the program and made it available online, allowing teachers to integrate it into classrooms without requiring additional training. ​Schools of all sizes, from New Zealand’s smallest to its largest primary school, have already piloted the initiative. ​ Jackson, who has a unique background in both performing arts and health science, initially developed these techniques for corporate team-building workshops and executive coaching. ​ After years of success in the corporate world, he decided to adapt the methods for children, recognising the importance of instilling these skills early in life. ​ “It’s cheaper, easier, and smarter to build a creative child than to fix a broken adult,” Jackson explained. To ensure the program is accessible to all schools, Jackson’s charitable trust is fundraising to cover the $5,000 annual cost per school. ​On September 16, the trust will host a Giving Day, where corporate sponsors will match every public donation dollar-for-dollar. ​ Sponsors include BMS IT, Sandfield, Radius Care, Chorus, Mazda, and Forsyth Barr. ​Jackson emphasised that every contribution counts, as it not only funds the program but also supports the development of additional content, such as communication skills and collaboration exercises. ​The initiative has already attracted international interest, with a school in England expressing interest in adopting the program. ​  For more information or to donate visit: https://www.charidy.com/coverttheatre/Wade https://www.resilienceplayground.org/ Sun, 14 Sept 2025 21:23:44 Z The Role of Competitiveness in Mental Health /on-air/nutters-club/audio/the-role-of-competitiveness-in-mental-health/ /on-air/nutters-club/audio/the-role-of-competitiveness-in-mental-health/ This week The Nutters Club talked about the intersection of competitiveness, mental health, and community connection, and shed light on the positive and negative impacts of striving for success. ​ The conversation explored how competitiveness can motivate individuals but also lead to emotional challenges if not managed healthily. ​ The discussion began with reflections on the All Blacks rugby match at Eden Park, where fans from opposing teams demonstrated camaraderie and mutual respect. This contrasted with the more aggressive rivalries seen in some sports globally, such as European football, where fans are often segregated for safety. ​Healthy competition can foster personal growth and community spirit, but when it becomes tied to identity or self-worth, it can lead to harmful outcomes. One caller shared a personal story about how competitiveness within their family created destructive patterns, leading to a realisation that life is not a competition. ​ They highlighted the importance of finding self-worth outside of achievements and embracing love and connection as more meaningful measures of success. ​ The conversation also touched on the dangers of over-identifying with accomplishments. ​A notable example was Steve Gurney, a nine-time winner of New Zealand’s Coast to Coast race, who fell into depression after an injury prevented him from competing for a tenth title. ​His story underscored the importance of separating identity from achievements and finding joy in the journey rather than the outcome. ​ Psychotherapist Kyle McDonald emphasised the value of purpose and gratitude in mitigating the darker sides of competitiveness. He noted that purpose-driven actions, such as volunteering or supporting others, can provide fulfilment and a sense of connection. ​ For example, many parents and community members dedicate time to coaching or organising youth sports, fostering relationships and shared experiences. ​ The discussion also addressed challenges faced by individuals with physical limitations. ​ A listener with chronic obstructive pulmonary disease (COPD) shared their struggle with feeling excluded from active pursuits. ​Suggestions included adapting activities to suit physical abilities, such as hosting a picnic at home or finding less physically demanding ways to connect with others. ​ The conversation highlighted that while competitiveness can drive achievement, true mental well-being comes from fostering meaningful relationships, embracing purpose, and finding joy in the present moment. ​ Wed, 10 Sept 2025 01:42:22 Z Son of a Gangster on becoming a Mental Health advocate /on-air/nutters-club/audio/son-of-a-gangster-on-becoming-a-mental-health-advocate/ /on-air/nutters-club/audio/son-of-a-gangster-on-becoming-a-mental-health-advocate/ Ivan, a Malaysian-born New Zealander, shared his story on his tumultuous upbringing, his journey to New Zealand, and his work in mental health advocacy. Born in Singapore and raised in Malaysia, Ivan grew up in a household marked by instability due to his father’s gambling addiction and involvement in organised crime. Constantly moving to evade threats, Ivan’s childhood was far from ordinary, leaving him with deep-seated anxiety, depression, and insecurity. ​ At 28, Ivan made the life-changing decision to move to New Zealand as an international student. ​ Struggling with his identity as a gay man in Malaysia, where homosexuality remains illegal, Ivan sought freedom and acceptance in New Zealand. ​Despite initial challenges, including adapting to a new culture and diet, Ivan found solace in the country’s more inclusive environment. However, he noted that even in New Zealand, coming out as gay can still lead to awkward moments, highlighting the ongoing need for societal progress. ​ Ivan’s personal struggles inspired him to pursue a career in mental health. After completing a social science degree, he joined a pioneering peer support program funded by Auckland Health New Zealand. Drawing from his own experiences with mental distress, Ivan now helps others navigate their mental health challenges, particularly within New Zealand’s Asian communities. He emphasised the importance of culturally sensitive approaches, noting that Western biomedical models often fail to resonate with Asian perspectives, which tend to view mental health through a holistic lens. ​ Ivan also advocates on the impact of gambling addiction, a problem he witnessed firsthand through his father’s struggles. ​ Gambling addiction, often referred to as the "secret addiction," has profound effects on families, leading to financial instability, emotional distress, and strained relationships. In New Zealand, the scale of the issue is staggering, with over $1 billion lost on pokie machines alone in 2022. ​ Ivan highlighted the hidden costs of gambling, including lost productivity and time that could be spent with loved ones. ​ Ivan’s story is a testament to resilience and the power of community. From a chaotic childhood to becoming a mental health advocate, he continues to inspire others by turning his pain into purpose, helping those in need and raising awareness about mental health and gambling addiction. ​ Tue, 02 Sept 2025 01:23:00 Z Shortland Streets Chris Hobbs: Addiction, Recovery, and Rediscovering Creativity /on-air/nutters-club/audio/shortland-streets-chris-hobbs-addiction-recovery-and-rediscovering-creativity/ /on-air/nutters-club/audio/shortland-streets-chris-hobbs-addiction-recovery-and-rediscovering-creativity/ Chris Hobbs, a New Zealand actor known for his role on Shortland Street, spoke with 九一星空无限talkZB’s The Nutters Cub about his journey through addiction, recovery, and personal growth. After spending years in Australia and Los Angeles pursuing acting, Hobbs returned to New Zealand, where he has embraced a new perspective on his career and life. ​ Hobbs revealed that his struggles with addiction began in his 30s, years after he had established himself as an actor. ​ He described how alcohol became a secret coping mechanism to manage anxiety and boost creativity on set. " ​I felt alcohol reduced my inhibitions and increased my creativity," he said. ​ However, this reliance on alcohol led to a dark secret that weighed heavily on him. " ​If people knew, it would have been the end of my career", Hobbs admitted. ​ Now 18 years sober, Hobbs credits therapy and medication for helping him manage anxiety and depression. He shared how anti-anxiety and antidepressant medications, such as citalopram and buspirone, brought him relief, silencing the critical voices in his head and allowing him to focus on recovery. "I woke up one morning to silence—the voices were gone," he said, describing the transformative impact of the medication. ​ Hobbs has also found solace in boxing, which he practices daily at gyms like Peach Boxing and Mayhem Boxing. ​ He views the sport as both a physical outlet and a way to build resilience. "Boxing gives me the physical thing I need to stay balanced", he said. ​ In addition to acting, Hobbs recently completed a master’s degree in creative performance at Toi Whakaari, New Zealand’s drama school. His research explored whether he could rediscover the creativity he once felt alcohol provided. ​ The process led him to a profound realization: vulnerability, which he once feared, is his superpower. " ​I felt fierce pride in my mistakes and vulnerability", he said, describing the emotional growth he experienced during his studies. ​ Hobbs plans to continue his research with a PhD, focusing on "super vulnerability" and how it can be channelled into creativity. ​ He also hopes to inspire others struggling with addiction". ​I wanted to dedicate my work to anyone suffering with a dark secret", he said. ​ With a new acting role on the horizon and a renewed love for his craft, Hobbs is embracing a life driven by passion rather than external validation". ​If I can rediscover the love of acting, then it’s magic", he said. ​ Tue, 19 Aug 2025 01:27:00 Z How community helps overcome mental health challenges /on-air/nutters-club/audio/how-community-helps-overcome-mental-health-challenges/ /on-air/nutters-club/audio/how-community-helps-overcome-mental-health-challenges/ Nick Scott, a passionate motorcyclist and content creator, is relaxed and reflective as he shares his mental health journey. Speaking on the Nutters Club radio show on 九一星空无限talkZB, Scott revealed how his struggles with anxiety and depression led him to a breaking point. However, the unwavering support of his friends and fellow riders helped him regain stability and purpose. ​ Scott described how his mental health deteriorated after a series of personal challenges, including crippling anxiety and significant weight loss. ​ At his lowest point, he withdrew from social interactions and struggled to find motivation. ​ Yet, his motorcycle community refused to let him face his struggles alone. ​  Friends regularly checked in on him, even showing up at his house to ensure he was okay. ​ Their pragmatic and compassionate approach provided the foundation for his recovery. One pivotal moment came when Scott’s friend, “Big Nick,” encouraged him to embark on a motorcycle restoration project. Together, they acquired a 1994 Yamaha XJR 1200, which had seen better days. ​ The project became a turning point for Scott, giving him a sense of purpose and a creative outlet. “Every step you take ends up being a little bit easier the next time,” Scott said, reflecting on how the project helped him rebuild his confidence. ​ The restoration project evolved into a charitable initiative. Scott and his team partnered with Toa Kiwi Māia, a charity supporting the mental health of first responders and their families. ​ The restored motorcycle will be raffled off, with proceeds going to the organisation. Scott praised Toa Kiwi Māia’s work, particularly their focus on supporting not just first responders but also their families, who often play a crucial role in recovery. ​ Scott emphasised the importance of community and connection in mental health recovery. ​ He noted that his experience has made him more attuned to the needs of others, encouraging him to offer support to friends who may be struggling. ​ “If I know one of my mates is not all right, the first question is, ‘What do you need right now?’” he said. ​ The motorcycle restoration project, now complete, stands as a testament to the power of community, purpose, and resilience. ​ Tickets for the raffle are already on sale, with Scott hopeful that the initiative will inspire others to take action and support mental health causes. ​ With thanks to NZ on Air. LISTEN ABOVE Mon, 18 Aug 2025 23:32:30 Z How to create change in the wake of trauma /on-air/nutters-club/audio/how-to-create-change-in-the-wake-of-trauma/ /on-air/nutters-club/audio/how-to-create-change-in-the-wake-of-trauma/ Hamish Williams and Kyle MacDonald speak with Corban Mita about how he challenged his own behavior to better his mental health. In doing so he confronted his own childhood trauma and learned how to break the cycle of abuse. Callers shared their own experiences about what works and where to reach out to for help. With thanks to NZ on Air. LISTEN ABOVE Wed, 13 Aug 2025 23:53:22 Z The rise of ADHD diagnosis: Growing awareness through shared experiences /on-air/nutters-club/audio/the-rise-of-adhd-diagnosis-growing-awareness-through-shared-experiences/ /on-air/nutters-club/audio/the-rise-of-adhd-diagnosis-growing-awareness-through-shared-experiences/ 04 August 2025: This week Hamish and Kyle we delve into Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder - the rise in diagnoses, growing public awareness, and the increasing number of people sharing their experiences. They explore what it means to receive a diagnosis later in life, how others respond, and why open conversations about ADHD are helping to reduce stigma and build understanding. With thanks to NZ on Air. LISTEN ABOVE Tue, 05 Aug 2025 03:13:49 Z Changing the Culture: Mental Health in the Workplace /on-air/nutters-club/audio/changing-the-culture-mental-health-in-the-workplace/ /on-air/nutters-club/audio/changing-the-culture-mental-health-in-the-workplace/ 27 July 2025: This week, we explore mental health in the workplace - how the environments we work in can support or strain our wellbeing. From rising workloads to unrealistic expectations, the pressure can quickly pile up. So how do we cope when it feels like too much? Hosts Hamish Williams and psychotherapist Kyle MacDonald discuss the importance of being open about our mental health at work, and how honest conversations can lead to real change for individuals and workplace culture alike. With thanks to NZ on Air. LISTEN ABOVE Wed, 30 Jul 2025 00:17:40 Z Sandra Dickson: Domestic violence in Rainbow Communities /on-air/nutters-club/audio/sandra-dickson-domestic-violence-in-rainbow-communities/ /on-air/nutters-club/audio/sandra-dickson-domestic-violence-in-rainbow-communities/ 20 July 2025: People in rainbow communities experience disproportionately higher rates of family and partner violence and abuse. Sandra Dickson is a researcher and community development practitioner with 30 years’ experience in Rainbow communities and family and sexual violence. She is a cofounder of Hohou Te Rongo Kahukura, a community organisation focused on building Takatāpui and Rainbow communities without all forms of violence.  She also has a personal story of being the victim of partner abuse, starting with emotional and psychological abuse, then transitioning into physical abuse. She shares her journey of recovering her sense of self after leaving the relationship and going onto advocate for other LGBQT in abusive relationships with counsellor Mick Andrews and psychotherapist Kyle MacDonald. With thanks to NZ on Air. LISTEN ABOVE Mon, 21 Jul 2025 15:28:24 Z Preston O’Brien: Healing through honesty - Speaking the unspeakable of childhood abuse /on-air/nutters-club/audio/preston-o-brien-healing-through-honesty-speaking-the-unspeakable-of-childhood-abuse/ /on-air/nutters-club/audio/preston-o-brien-healing-through-honesty-speaking-the-unspeakable-of-childhood-abuse/ 13 July 2025: Preston O’Brien was born into a house marked by sexual abuse at the hands of his father. In response to this early trauma, he shut down emotionally, blocking out large parts of his childhood. To numb the pain and shame, he turned to drugs, alcohol, and sex - chasing dopamine in a life shaped by undiagnosed ADHD and unresolved trauma. He describes living in a state of passive suicide, repeatedly finding himself in life-threatening situations: car crashes, overdoses, being stabbed and shot - passively waiting for someone or something to end it all. Eventually reaching rock bottom, Preston found sobriety and began a journey of healing. Now in recovery, he helps other men reconnect with themselves, each other, and their families.  He shares his story with counsellor Mick Andrews and clinical psychologist Ingo Lambrech. With thanks to NZ on Air. LISTEN ABOVE Tue, 15 Jul 2025 08:00:37 Z Laura Gavin: Finding pathways through post-natal depression /on-air/nutters-club/audio/laura-gavin-finding-pathways-through-post-natal-depression/ /on-air/nutters-club/audio/laura-gavin-finding-pathways-through-post-natal-depression/ 29 June 2025:  Around 15% of all mothers experience post-natal depression. Laura Gavin joins counsellor Mick Andrews and psychologist co-host Dr Isabelle Miclette after a period of darkness and despair after the birth of her daughter and how she made her way out the other side. With thanks to NZ on Air. LISTEN ABOVE Tue, 08 Jul 2025 10:34:37 Z Barney Koneferenisi: Double amputee on playing for the Wheel Blacks and embracing change /on-air/nutters-club/audio/barney-koneferenisi-double-amputee-on-playing-for-the-wheel-blacks-and-embracing-change/ /on-air/nutters-club/audio/barney-koneferenisi-double-amputee-on-playing-for-the-wheel-blacks-and-embracing-change/ 29 June 2025:  Barney Koneferenisi became a double amputee at the age of eleven. After undergoing more than 40 surgeries, he embraced his disability and went on to excel in wheelchair rugby, representing New Zealand as part of the Wheel Blacks Paralympic team. Now an active advocate for accessible transport, Barney speaks with Hamish Williams and psychotherapist Kyle MacDonald about overcoming adversity and challenging ourselves to make positive changes for our health and wellbeing. With thanks to NZ on Air. LISTEN ABOVE Wed, 02 Jul 2025 02:27:52 Z Managing fear and anxiety in times of global instability /on-air/nutters-club/audio/managing-fear-and-anxiety-in-times-of-global-instability/ /on-air/nutters-club/audio/managing-fear-and-anxiety-in-times-of-global-instability/ 22 June 2025:  With geopolitical tensions escalating around the globe, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by fear and anxiety of what could eventuate. Hamish Williams and psychotherapist Kyle MacDonald explore how this global instability affects our mental wellbeing, and discuss ways to regulate our emotions in uncertain times. With thanks to NZ On Air.LISTEN ABOVE Mon, 23 Jun 2025 00:56:03 Z On New Zealand's growing Meth epidemic /on-air/nutters-club/audio/on-new-zealands-growing-meth-epidemic/ /on-air/nutters-club/audio/on-new-zealands-growing-meth-epidemic/ Aotearoa’s methamphetamine crisis is escalating, with wastewater testing revealing a sharp rise in use; from 732kg in 2023 to over 1000kg in 2024. Hamish Williams and psychotherapist Kyle MacDonald explore the effects of meth addiction, the toll it takes on whānau, and the support services available for those seeking help. With thanks to NZ On Air. LISTEN ABOVE Mon, 16 Jun 2025 07:36:19 Z Grace Curtis: Living in the wake of suicide /on-air/nutters-club/audio/grace-curtis-living-in-the-wake-of-suicide/ /on-air/nutters-club/audio/grace-curtis-living-in-the-wake-of-suicide/ 08 June 2025: Mental health advocate Grace Curtis shares her journey of complex grief after losing her father to suicide at age 22. The author of newly released, The best is yet to come: A cool change for the mental health of all New Zealanders and a champion for peer support, she speaks with Hamish Williams and Kyle MacDonald about living with grief, the power of connection, and her vision for a brighter mental health future in Aotearoa. With thanks to NZ on Air. LISTEN ABOVE Tue, 10 Jun 2025 01:22:15 Z Sam Owen: Mental health on the farm - Seeing the signs /on-air/nutters-club/sam-owen-mental-health-on-the-farm-seeing-the-signs/ /on-air/nutters-club/sam-owen-mental-health-on-the-farm-seeing-the-signs/ Dairy farmer Sam Owen returns to The Nutters Club to share how the pressures of farming, finances, and family life forced him to confront and prioritise his mental health.Once a farmer in survival mode, Sam is now a mental health advocate, helping others recognise the signs they often overlook. He speaks with counsellor Mick Andrews and psychotherapist Kyle MacDonald about the toll that burnout and silence can take - not just on farmers, but on those around them, and why learning to speak up has been life-changing. With thanks to NZ on Air. LISTEN ABOVE Tue, 03 Jun 2025 09:33:32 Z Suicidal thinking: Finding a way through /on-air/nutters-club/suicidal-thinking-finding-a-way-through/ /on-air/nutters-club/suicidal-thinking-finding-a-way-through/ 25 May 2025: New Zealand has the highest youth suicide rates among 36 OECD countries, highlighting a pressing mental health crisis. Hamish Williams and psychotherapist Kyle MacDonald explore what can be done when suicidal thoughts arise and how to recognise them as serious indicators of mental distress. The discussion offers practical tools to help calm overwhelming thoughts and ways to stay connected through moments of deep struggle. Also looking at the steps individuals and communities can take to support mental wellbeing. With thanks to NZ on Air. LISTEN ABOVE Mon, 26 May 2025 22:51:20 Z Obsessive Compulsive Disorder Unpacked: Understanding and treating OCD /on-air/nutters-club/obsessive-compulsive-disorder-unpacked-understanding-and-treating-ocd/ /on-air/nutters-club/obsessive-compulsive-disorder-unpacked-understanding-and-treating-ocd/ 18 May 2025: OCD is often misunderstood as just a quirk or a need for cleanliness, but it’s a complex and often distressing mental health condition.  Hamish Williams and psychotherapist Kyle MacDonald unpack what Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder really is; including the role intrusive thoughts and compulsive behaviours play. They explore evidence-based treatments like CBT and how therapy can help manage symptoms and improve quality of life. We also touch on the deeper roots OCD can sometimes have in childhood trauma, and why understanding its origins can support healing.With thanks to NZ on Air. LISTEN ABOVE Tue, 20 May 2025 04:07:25 Z Sean Ian Te Hira Selby: Learning to live after taking a life /on-air/nutters-club/sean-ian-te-hira-selby-learning-to-live-after-taking-a-life/ /on-air/nutters-club/sean-ian-te-hira-selby-learning-to-live-after-taking-a-life/ Convicted of murder of another young man after a drunken fight at just 18 years old, Sean Ian Te Hira Selby spent over a decade behind bars confronting the roots of his actions. He shares his journey through childhood trauma, destructive behaviours, and ultimately, rehabilitation Hamish Williams and psychotherapist Kyle MacDonald.  Sean discusses how therapy helped him build self-awareness and challenge the beliefs that led to his offending. Now committed to contributing positively to society, he speaks candidly about accountability, healing, and change. With thanks to NZ on Air. LISTEN ABOVE Tue, 13 May 2025 22:36:34 Z Carlos Miguel Martinez: Confronting the contagion of hatred /on-air/nutters-club/carlos-miguel-martinez-confronting-the-contagion-of-hatred/ /on-air/nutters-club/carlos-miguel-martinez-confronting-the-contagion-of-hatred/ 04 May 2025: In the face of an apparent global epidemic of hatred and polarisation inflamed by social media, Carlos Miguel Martinez has been carving pathways for peace and connection. He talks to Hamish Williams and psychotherapist Kyle MacDonald about his new initiative "Love Walks", a powerful vision that brings together opposing peoples to walk through the wilderness in Aotearoa and find their common ground and discovering their shared humanity. With thanks to NZ on Air. LISTEN ABOVE Tue, 06 May 2025 08:16:02 Z Rehabilitation services and your experiences /on-air/nutters-club/rehabilitation-services-and-your-experiences/ /on-air/nutters-club/rehabilitation-services-and-your-experiences/ 27 April 2025: Hamish Williams and psychotherapist Kyle MacDonald talk with callers about their personal experiences with alcohol and addiction recovery. They discuss the role of rehab units, the value of intensive day programmes in recovery, and how recent funding changes have affected services like Auckland’s Seger House.With thanks to NZ on Air. LISTEN ABOVE Tue, 29 Apr 2025 05:10:35 Z On police withdrawal from mental health crisis response /on-air/nutters-club/on-police-withdrawal-from-mental-health-crisis-response/ /on-air/nutters-club/on-police-withdrawal-from-mental-health-crisis-response/ 20 April 2025:  Hamish and Kyle talk about the effects of The New Zealand Government implementing NZ Police withdrawal from mental health crisis situations. The reform is in its second stage which limits time police can stay with people in crisis to an hour. We talk to callers about their concerns, questions and experiences in mental health crisis response. With thanks to NZ on Air. LISTEN ABOVE Mon, 21 Apr 2025 21:36:09 Z All about addiction /on-air/nutters-club/all-about-addiction/ /on-air/nutters-club/all-about-addiction/ 13 April 2025:  Addiction comes in all shapes and sizes; alcohol, drugs, exercise, gaming, gambling, eating, sugar, social media, work, porn, smoking, vaping and more.  Hamish Williams and psychotherapist Kyle MacDonald. discuss when a behaviour becomes an addiction, it's harmful impacts and what can we do about it.  We talk to those who are currently living with addiction, those who have recovered and those supporting loved ones through addiction. With thanks to NZ on Air. LISTEN ABOVE Tue, 15 Apr 2025 06:21:41 Z Understanding trauma and how it affects us /on-air/nutters-club/understanding-trauma-and-how-it-affects-us/ /on-air/nutters-club/understanding-trauma-and-how-it-affects-us/ 06 April 2025: In a mental health sense, trauma happens when a situation occurs that overwhelms our emotions and nervous systems and encodes in our system. Hamish Williams and psychotherapist Kyle MacDonald how trauma is defined, how it affect us and different types of therapy that can help us move past the negative effects of trauma. Sat, 12 Apr 2025 23:11:30 Z Teenage minds: Navigating adolescent mental health in 2025 /on-air/nutters-club/teenage-minds-navigating-adolescent-mental-health-in-2025/ /on-air/nutters-club/teenage-minds-navigating-adolescent-mental-health-in-2025/ 30 March 2025:  Inspired by hugely popular Netflix series, Adolescence, Hamish Williams and psychotherapist Kyle MacDonald explore the the challenges of being a teenager in 2025 from a mental health perspective. With thanks to NZ on Air. LISTEN ABOVE Tue, 01 Apr 2025 05:35:19 Z Navigating Mental Health Crises /on-air/nutters-club/navigating-mental-health-crises/ /on-air/nutters-club/navigating-mental-health-crises/ 23 March 2025: Hamish Williams and psychotherapist Kyle MacDonald discuss identifying and navigating mental health crises - for ourselves and for others. With thanks to NZ on Air. LISTEN ABOVE Tue, 25 Mar 2025 05:08:06 Z The importance of connection to the places we're from /on-air/nutters-club/the-importance-of-connection-to-the-places-were-from/ /on-air/nutters-club/the-importance-of-connection-to-the-places-were-from/ 16 March 2025: How does where we're from inform our identity and how we see ourselves? Hamish Williams and psychotherapist Kyle MacDonald talk about how a connection to a place can give us a sense of belonging and a feeling of being home. With thanks to NZ on Air. LISTEN ABOVE Mon, 17 Mar 2025 21:20:19 Z How can we best manage our mental health? /on-air/nutters-club/how-can-we-best-manage-our-mental-health/ /on-air/nutters-club/how-can-we-best-manage-our-mental-health/ 09 March 2025: Hamish Williams and psychotherapist Kyle MacDonald talk about how to approach our mental health in a way that gives us the best chance at wellbeing. With thanks to NZ on Air. LISTEN ABOVE Mon, 10 Mar 2025 03:45:59 Z Glen Green: Breaking cycles of crime and violence through Basketball /on-air/nutters-club/glen-green-breaking-cycles-of-crime-and-violence-through-basketball/ /on-air/nutters-club/glen-green-breaking-cycles-of-crime-and-violence-through-basketball/ 02 March 2025: Glen Green grew up in a violent environment; a rough start that was the breeding ground for anger - at his situation, at those around him and at the world. This anger put him on a troubled path, where he was kicked out of school and unsure where to turn. It was a man on a basketball court that opened his eyes to the power of forgiveness and when Glen found peace in himself, he was able to share the power of forgiveness with other young men.  Through years of serving as a police officer, he saw how the cycle of crime trapped young people, and after leaving his job, he founded The Better Way Foundation, using 3x3 street basketball courts to teach respect, discipline, and life skills.  Glen shares with Hamish Williams and psychotherapist Kyle MacDonald about forgiveness, change and the unusual healing power of the basketball court, which has helped transform lives and lower crime rates in communities across Aotearoa.  With thanks to NZ on Air. LISTEN ABOVE Tue, 04 Mar 2025 01:41:44 Z Stefan Ozich: A 6000km journey for men’s mental health /on-air/nutters-club/stefan-ozich-a-6000km-journey-for-men-s-mental-health/ /on-air/nutters-club/stefan-ozich-a-6000km-journey-for-men-s-mental-health/ 23 February 2025: After losing both his brother and a close friend to suicide, endurance runner Stefan Ozich embarked on a 6000km journey, running the length of Aotearoa and back, to raise funds and awareness for me men’s mental health. Determined to challenge the stigma around men’s mental health and encourage open conversations, Stefan shares his personal story of grief and endurance with Hamish Williams and psychotherapist Kyle MacDonald. With thanks to NZ on Air. LISTEN ABOVE Mon, 24 Feb 2025 21:00:47 Z Brenda James: Learning to believe in yourself through adversity /on-air/nutters-club/brenda-james-learning-to-believe-in-yourself-through-adversity/ /on-air/nutters-club/brenda-james-learning-to-believe-in-yourself-through-adversity/ 16 February 2025: Brenda James shares her life experiences including  her story of overcoming alcoholism with 15 years of sobriety under her belt. She also talks about her book From Break up to Breakthrough - Believe in You, supporting people to find renewed strength after a relationship break up.  With Hamish Williams and psychotherapist Kyle MacDonald. With thanks to NZ on Air. LISTEN ABOVE Tue, 18 Feb 2025 00:06:22 Z Professor Emeritus Rob Kydd - From the 70s hippie trail to psychiatric advocacy /on-air/nutters-club/professor-emeritus-rob-kydd-from-the-70s-hippie-trail-to-psychiatric-advocacy/ /on-air/nutters-club/professor-emeritus-rob-kydd-from-the-70s-hippie-trail-to-psychiatric-advocacy/ 09 February 2025: Emeritus Professor of Psychiatry Rob Kydd shares about his life in mental health including his pathway to becoming a psychiatrist including travelling the hippie trail of the 1970s in Bali and India with several mind-expanding experiences along the way. He discusses the New Zealand mental health system and how his works ensures our country is putting money toward the best outcomes. With Hamish Williams and psychotherapist Kyle MacDonald. With thanks to NZ on Air. LISTEN ABOVE Tue, 11 Feb 2025 02:05:17 Z Edward Stanaway: Finding hope when we feel hopeless /on-air/nutters-club/edward-stanaway-finding-hope-when-we-feel-hopeless/ /on-air/nutters-club/edward-stanaway-finding-hope-when-we-feel-hopeless/ 02 February 2025: In his life, Edward Stanaway has experienced grief through losing a child, and also rejection - applying for 2000 jobs in 18 months without a single successful application. He talks to Hamish Williams and psychotherapist Kyle MacDonald  about moving forward and finding motivation through loss and rejection. With thanks to NZ on Air. LISTEN ABOVE Tue, 04 Feb 2025 02:45:17 Z The little things that have a big impact on our mental health /on-air/nutters-club/the-little-things-that-have-a-big-impact-on-our-mental-health/ /on-air/nutters-club/the-little-things-that-have-a-big-impact-on-our-mental-health/ 26 January 2025: Hamish Williams and psychotherapist Kyle MacDonald talk about how little things in life cumulatively influence our mental health. With thanks to NZ on Air. LISTEN ABOVE Wed, 29 Jan 2025 20:11:24 Z How shifting our mindset can influence our 2025 /on-air/nutters-club/how-shifting-our-mindset-can-influence-our-2025/ /on-air/nutters-club/how-shifting-our-mindset-can-influence-our-2025/ 19 January 2025:  In the first Nutters Club show for 2025 Hamish Williams looks at how the stories we tell ourselves influence how our mindset is crafted towards life. He discusses how we can harness this perspective for a positive 2025. With thanks to NZ on Air. LISTEN ABOVE Tue, 28 Jan 2025 19:44:18 Z How to survive Christmas with your mental health intact /on-air/nutters-club/how-to-survive-christmas-with-your-mental-health-intact/ /on-air/nutters-club/how-to-survive-christmas-with-your-mental-health-intact/ 15 December 2024:  For the final Nutters Club show of 2024 Hamish Williams and psychotherapist Kyle MacDonald talk about strategies for making it through the stress of the Christmas and New Year period, while acknowledging the sadness and grief present for some at this time. With thanks to NZ on Air. LISTEN ABOVE Thu, 19 Dec 2024 19:40:48 Z Daniel Kalderimis - Lawyer on healing depression through embracing imperfection /on-air/nutters-club/daniel-kalderimis-lawyer-on-healing-depression-through-embracing-imperfection/ /on-air/nutters-club/daniel-kalderimis-lawyer-on-healing-depression-through-embracing-imperfection/ 08 December 2024:  Falling into a serious depression in his 40s, successful Wellington litigation lawyer Daniel Kalderimis set out a quest to "fix himself". His lessons along the way inspired him to author Zest - Climbing from Depression to Philosophy, a personal account of how we can seek meaning and joy by facing and accepting our imperfections. Daniel talk with Hamish Williams and counsellor Suzy Morrison about how reassessing the way he was thinking about his day-to-day life started to to change the way he saw the world. With thanks to NZ on Air. LISTEN ABOVE Tue, 10 Dec 2024 09:05:29 Z Detective Inspector Scott Beard: On processing Grace Millaine's murder /on-air/nutters-club/detective-inspector-scott-beard-on-processing-grace-millaines-murder/ /on-air/nutters-club/detective-inspector-scott-beard-on-processing-grace-millaines-murder/ 01 December 2024:  Detective Inspector Scott Beard joins Hamish Williams and Psychotherapist Kyle McDonald on the eve of the anniversary of the murder of Grace Millane to share how he managed the mental health impacts of the case and  how he and Grace's Mother, Gillian, spent time together processing the trauma and grief from her death. With thanks to NZ on Air. LISTEN ABOVE Sun, 01 Dec 2024 21:56:22 Z Sarah Trotman, ONZM: What failure teaches us /on-air/nutters-club/sarah-trotman-onzm-what-failure-teaches-us/ /on-air/nutters-club/sarah-trotman-onzm-what-failure-teaches-us/ 24 November 2024:  Sarah Trotman, ONZM, business leader and elected member on Auckland Council’s Waitematā Local Board, talks to Hamish Williams and psychologist Dr Emma Woodward about how the business world has taught her about anxiety and learning how to fail. With thanks to NZ on Air. LISTEN ABOVE Tue, 26 Nov 2024 04:57:21 Z