九一星空无限

ZB ZB
Opinion
Live now
Start time
Playing for
End time
Listen live
Up next
ZB

‘What a woman’s place was’: Ex-member on Gloriavale girls’ schooling

Author
Neil Reid,
Publish Date
Mon, 17 Nov 2025, 1:20pm

‘What a woman’s place was’: Ex-member on Gloriavale girls’ schooling

Author
Neil Reid,
Publish Date
Mon, 17 Nov 2025, 1:20pm

As education bosses consider the future of Gloriavale鈥檚 private school, one of the commune鈥檚 highest-profile leavers has spoken of how schooling for girls focused on 鈥渨hat a woman鈥檚 place was鈥.

Last month the Ministry of Education (MOE) put leaders of Gloriavale on notice that it was considering closing its private school based on 鈥渟erious concerns鈥 raised in ERO audits that it was not a physically or mentally safe place for children.

Gloriavale was given a five-week period and a deadline of November 6 to provide its response.

That deadline was extended until last Friday following a request from Gloriavale.

The MOE confirmed today that Gloriavale had met the deadline鈥檚 response.

The ministry was now 鈥渃arefully reviewing鈥 it before making a decision.

鈥淭here is no set timeframe for this process, but the Ministry will make sure it moves forward within a reasonable period,鈥 Andrea Williams, acting haut奴 (leader) Te Tai Runga (South), said.

鈥淭he school will be kept informed about when a decision can be expected.鈥

 As education officials consider the potential forced closure of the Gloriavale commune's private school, high-profile community leaver Pearl Valor (inset), has spoken of how schooling for girls focused on 鈥渨hat a women's place was". New Zealand Herald composite photo

As education officials consider the potential forced closure of the Gloriavale commune's private school, high-profile community leaver Pearl Valor (inset), has spoken of how schooling for girls focused on 鈥渨hat a women's place was". New Zealand Herald composite photo

About 220 children are schooled inside Gloriavale, located on the West Coast.

Just under 100 go to the private school, which teaches children up to the age of 15, in a ministry-approved homeschooling programme.

The ERO has confirmed to the Herald that it is reviewing Gloriavale鈥檚 homeschooling system.

Education officials are set to now make a decision on Gloriavale Christian Community's school. Photo / 九一星空无限
Education officials are set to now make a decision on Gloriavale Christian Community's school. Photo / 九一星空无限

If the school is closed and homeschooling permissions are withdrawn, about 220 children will need to leave the commune daily to attend public schools on the outside.

Since 2023, the ERO has been asking Gloriavale to allow full attendance to children with 鈥渃omplex additional needs鈥.

The curriculum has also been criticised as sexist. Senior schooling 鈥 to the age of 15 鈥 teaches girls sewing, cooking and childcare. Boys are taught subjects such as farming, carpentry and engineering.

Gloriavale leaver: 鈥楾he education we were provided was... what a woman鈥檚 place was鈥

Gloriavale was home for Pearl Valor until she and her husband, Paul, decided to leave in December 2021.

The couple 鈥 who then had four young children 鈥 have featured in documentary series Gloriavale 鈥 Life and Death and Gloriavale: A World Apart, including footage of their courtship and eventual marriage.

Pearl Valor gives evidence during an employment court hearing into Gloriavale. Photo / 九一星空无限
Pearl Valor gives evidence during an employment court hearing into Gloriavale. Photo / 九一星空无限

Those documentaries also touched on the limited education offered to boys and girls in the commune.

Gloriavale鈥檚 material says it is 鈥渘ot interested in education for the sake of education, nor in placing our people in university campuses where ungodly attitudes can prevail鈥.

鈥淲e are interested in education only where it can equip us to meet the needs of our community life,鈥 the religious community leaders state.

For boys, that includes learning about building, engineering and farming.

Pearl Valor while appearing in the TVNZ documentary Gloriavale - Life and Death . Photo / TVNZ
Pearl Valor while appearing in the TVNZ documentary Gloriavale - Life and Death . Photo / TVNZ

For girls, Valor says she and others were taught about 鈥渞unning a household, looking after children, sewing, cooking, cleaning...鈥

鈥淏asically, the education we were provided was what a woman鈥檚 place was in the society we were in,鈥 Valor told the Herald.

鈥淎 woman鈥檚 place in Gloriavale was to be a keeper at home and a mum. So, [we were taught] anything that fitted into that role. If it didn鈥檛, it just wasn鈥檛 an option.鈥

Those living in the community were told 鈥渢his is normal and this is right鈥, Valor said.

While she was there, she had an internal awareness that it wasn鈥檛 right, 鈥渂ut there鈥檚 no way to express it鈥.

Valor 鈥 who now has five children 鈥 said she realised after leaving Gloriavale 鈥渉ow much I鈥檇 missed out on鈥 education-wise.

She has now enrolled for tertiary studies.

Valor and her husband left because they wanted their children 鈥渢o have better than me and to have safety鈥.

The Gloriavale Christian Community located at Haupiri on the West Coast of the South Island. Photo / Corey Fleming
The Gloriavale Christian Community located at Haupiri on the West Coast of the South Island. Photo / Corey Fleming

鈥淚t鈥檚 just about having the choices available to them, and they can make good decisions with the education and choices that they鈥檙e offered,鈥 she said.

Gloriavale leadership have told the Herald they would not currently publicly comment whether they believed their school was up to standard.

鈥淲e will not be making comments on this while the matter is under investigation,鈥 a statement said.

鈥業t鈥檚 about giving your children the best opportunity for life鈥

The Herald has been told by a source that a meeting was held in Gloriavale last Tuesday night where leaders talked to commune members about education and the ongoing wrangle with the MOE and the ERO.

Valor said the majority living in the community would have little idea of the variety and length of education their children could get in the outside world.

Farm buildings and a plant at the Gloriavale commune. Photo / Corey Fleming
Farm buildings and a plant at the Gloriavale commune. Photo / Corey Fleming

With the threat of closure of its school hanging over Gloriavale, she believed if that did happen many parents would soon be happy to send their kids outside the commune for schooling.

鈥淚 feel the parents, if they had options, they would make better choices for their kids,鈥 she said.

鈥淏ut from what they are offered in the community, they think that鈥檚 normal and they think it鈥檚 good because that鈥檚 what they鈥檙e told.

鈥淏ut once they鈥檙e aware there鈥檚 more options, I think they would make really good choices for their children.鈥

The Herald revealed earlier this month that some West Coast schools were pro-actively investigating how they will upscale and absorb the children of Gloriavale if the Government decides to close the religious commune鈥檚 school.

 Children's Commissioner Dr Claire Achmad (inset) has spoken out with her concerns about Gloriavale's private school after a succession of failings revealed in Education Review Office documents. New Zealand Herald composite photo
Children's Commissioner Dr Claire Achmad (inset) has spoken out with her concerns about Gloriavale's private school after a succession of failings revealed in Education Review Office documents. New Zealand Herald composite photo

Multiple buses and drivers will be needed for the job 鈥 and the local schools will need new teachers, classrooms and other specialist support.

A local education source told the Herald that counsellors would likely be needed to help the children adjust to the outside world.

Complex decisions will need to be made on clothing: local schools have uniforms that expose the lower limbs 鈥 something the children, who have worn Gloriavale clothing since birth, will not be used to.

Valor said closure would lead to a 鈥渞eally hard transition for the children and the parents鈥, but one that could benefit youngsters.

鈥淭here鈥檚 going to need to be a lot of support, support systems and scaffolding.鈥

Gloriavale leavers鈥 advocate鈥檚 鈥榙eep sorrow鈥 over limited education

Over the past month, head of the Gloriavale Leavers鈥 Trust Liz Gregory has intensified her calls for the school to be closed until commune leaders could prove it was a safe environment for children.

It is a view she said is shared by former members of the religious community that she has helped resettle in the wider community.

Liz Gregory, manager of Gloriavale Leavers' Trust, wants the school closed until it can be proven it is a safe environment for children. Photo / 九一星空无限
Liz Gregory, manager of Gloriavale Leavers' Trust, wants the school closed until it can be proven it is a safe environment for children. Photo / 九一星空无限

She described the scope of education offered to girls as akin to 鈥淰ictorian England鈥.

As well as the housekeeping and domestic life tasks, they were also taught 鈥渧ery basic English and maths鈥.

鈥淐ertainly nothing like the breadth of the English and maths curriculum that you would expect out here [in the wider community],鈥 Gregory said.

鈥淚t鈥檚 a very old view of women and the lack of need for them to have any academic rigour.

Gregory has spoken to leavers 鈥 both adults and school-aged 鈥 who feel they have been left behind education-wise because of their time in Gloriavale.

 Education officials are considering the future of Gloriavale's private school, which previously has been the subjects of allegations its curriculum is sexist against girls. New Zealand Herald composite photo
Education officials are considering the future of Gloriavale's private school, which previously has been the subjects of allegations its curriculum is sexist against girls. New Zealand Herald composite photo

鈥淎 lot of leavers feel very ripped off and upset about the lack of opportunities they experienced now that they know what is available in the realms of education.鈥

Gregory believed the education offered at Gloriavale is solely based around ensuring students were prepared for the jobs they would need to do in later years within the community.

Her work in the trust brought her happiness to see former members enjoy a full range of life in the wider community.

At the same time, hearing stories on what they had missed out on education-wise was heartbreaking.

鈥淚 feel a deep sorrow that Gloriavale has limited male and female, learning and development,鈥 she said.

鈥淚 feel a sadness. It鈥檚 like, they had this portion of their life stolen from them... it was theft of something that other people in New Zealand have a right to.鈥

 is a Napier-based senior reporter who covers general news, features and sport. He joined the Herald in 2014 and has 33 years of newsroom experience.

Take your Radio, Podcasts and Music with you