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Online abuse driving women from local politics

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RNZ,
Publish Date
Mon, 24 Nov 2025, 10:40am
Auckland councillor Julie Fairey says her fellow councillors who are women - particularly women of colour - often receive more abuse than their male counterparts. Photo / RNZ, The Detail - Sharon Brettkelly
Auckland councillor Julie Fairey says her fellow councillors who are women - particularly women of colour - often receive more abuse than their male counterparts. Photo / RNZ, The Detail - Sharon Brettkelly

Online abuse driving women from local politics

Author
RNZ,
Publish Date
Mon, 24 Nov 2025, 10:40am

By Jessica Hopkins of RNZ

Auckland councillor Julie Fairey has become accustomed to abusive comments 鈥 but she was still shocked by what she saw on social media after she was hit by a car while cycling and suffered a broken leg.

Fairey has spent several years in local politics 鈥 and has been called all sorts of things.

鈥淚鈥檝e been called communist scum, which I find interesting.

鈥淚 get a fair bit of abuse about my husband, who is a former Cabinet minister, that I鈥檓 just his appendage and not my own person, which is difficult. We鈥檝e both been involved in politics for a long time, well before we were together.鈥

But she was still surprised by the cruelty of some of the comments she saw after she was hit by a car while cycling in Mt. Roskill in June.

鈥淧eople were basically one step on from blaming me. It was like I deserved it and that it would be nice if they finished the job or if it happened again, and that鈥檚 hard to read.

鈥淗ow could another human being write that to another person? You鈥檙e making this comment about someone, an actual person. How could you wish such ill on anybody? To me, it just seems cruel, and I don鈥檛 understand it.

鈥淚鈥檝e been doing this a long time, and a lot of it doesn鈥檛 bother me, although probably it should. But what bothers me is the idea that my kids or my mother might see it, and that would be upsetting for them, and that鈥檚 not okay.鈥

When Auckland Council surveyed last term鈥檚 councillors and local board members, 81% of those who responded said they had been harassed or bullied by members of the public.

65% had been abused or harassed online, with the majority of those targeted being women.

Thirty-three out of 170 members responded to the survey done in April, which was released to RNZ last week.

Fairey said her fellow councillors who are women 鈥 particularly women of colour 鈥 often received more abuse than their male counterparts.

鈥淔or women, there tends to be more appearance-based attacks. It鈥檚 not something I鈥檝e had to deal with too much, being of a smaller size and having pale skin. But I鈥檝e seen colleagues and friends be told to shut up because they鈥檙e fat or things of that nature.

鈥淚 have several friends who would make great local government elected members who have told me straight that they will not stand because of the fear of abuse. These are staunch women with plenty of useful experience that they could bring to the table, some of them in day jobs or volunteer work where they have stood up to power in the past and they鈥檙e not prepared to put themselves up for the election process because of the harassment they know they鈥檒l face, in particular online, and they way that sometimes people鈥檚 family members can be targeted as well.鈥

She challenged the idea that elected members should have to put up with vicious comments, including from each other.

鈥淚 have colleagues who, the way they feel about it, is that if it鈥檚 too hot, get out of the kitchen. But actually, the kitchen shouldn鈥檛 be that hot.

鈥淧oliticians have a role in bringing down the temperature themselves. Often, the narratives we engage with publicly heat things up, and we need to exhibit the kinds of standards we expect from the community and not make attacks on other people, be they staff, the organisation, or other elected members that are really personal and hurtful.鈥

Sixty-nine per cent of the 33 people who responded to the survey said they had been targeted by fellow elected members.

Fairey said that as of last term, the council started using a platform called Done Safe, where members can report comments that cross the line or persistent abuse.

Councillor Alf Filipaina said he was not active on social media but had received a few odd emails about his support for M膩ori wards.

鈥淭hey say things like you鈥檙e being divisive, you鈥檙e disgusting. But who cares, I just ignore them.鈥

Another councillor, Andy Baker, said he avoided social media because of personal attacks.

鈥淚 don鈥檛 live my life on social media and at times have taken myself off platforms because I was sick of the comments, just in general, how ridiculous some of them are.

鈥淏ut it is an issue, and some of the comments can be so nasty, so personal, they鈥檒l say 鈥榶ou鈥檙e just a dickhead鈥 and use abusive language.

鈥淲e can debate and disagree on issues, but when it becomes personal and sometimes they attack family, it just steps over that line.鈥

Baker said that working as a police officer gave him thick skin.

鈥淪omeone pulled a knife on me, I got shot at, so these sorts of comments are inane to me. I actually laugh at them. Deleted and blocked them and moved on.鈥

He agreed that councillors needed to watch their own behaviour.

鈥淲e鈥檙e not perfect either, in meetings some of my colleagues will climb into staff knowing they can鈥檛 respond.鈥

Councillor John Watson said the conduct around the council table could be appalling.

鈥淭he council has to look at itself before it even starts to look at the public. It should be encouraging a far higher standard of discourse amongst elected members. People have different points of view, and they鈥檙e entitled to say them, but they should be respectful.

鈥淲alking the talk and leading by example is a good way of ensuring that quite disturbing behaviour being signalled through this survey isn鈥檛 normalised.鈥

Council spokeswoman Lou-Ann Ballantyne said the level of intimidation and threats was worrying.

She said the council had taken actions, including de-escalation training for members and promoting the need to log incidents.

鈥淲e acknowledge there鈥檚 more to do, and we鈥檙e working through a range of possible tactics to help improve elected member safety and wellbeing as we go forward.鈥

Local Government [LGNZ] vice-president and Gisborne mayor Rehette Stolz said the problem was nationwide.

She said they had seen many examples of local and central government politicians being abused, including herself.

鈥淧eople sometimes talk to you in a way that is inappropriate. They send messages about how useless you are, that your council is a bunch of losers, or to 鈥榞o back to where you came from鈥.鈥淧eople put their names forward for local and central government to serve their communities, and everyone has the right to be treated with respect.鈥

She hoped recent changes to stalking and harassment legislation would improve safety for councillors across the country.

鈥淟GNZ have been active in supporting members who are victims of abuse and worked closely to get this legislation across the line. Now it鈥檚 gone through the house, we鈥檒l support members to know what this means for them, and how they can use it to make sure they are safe and respected.鈥

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