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Malachi's mum: 'Do not trust anyone with your kids who aren’t family’

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Publish Date
Fri, 2 Dec 2022, 1:51pm
Malachi Subecz, 5, was murdered by his carer Michaela Bariball in November 2021. Photo / Supplied
Malachi Subecz, 5, was murdered by his carer Michaela Bariball in November 2021. Photo / Supplied

Malachi's mum: 'Do not trust anyone with your kids who aren’t family’

Author
NZ Herald ,
Publish Date
Fri, 2 Dec 2022, 1:51pm

The mother of slain child Malachi Subecz has broken her silence the day after a damning report into the care the young boy was given by government agencies.

In a statement, the woman said there were 鈥渘o words鈥 that could describe the 鈥渆motions I have felt over this past year鈥.

鈥淪omething like this I would not wish upon anyone. I鈥檝e made my mistakes, all of which I live with every single day,鈥 she said.

鈥淎ll I hope to come from this is this does not happen to other parents doing a lag who have kids.

鈥淒o not trust anyone with your kids who aren鈥檛 family.

鈥淎 harsh lesson I鈥檝e learnt in the worst possible way. I want to thank every single person who has genuinely supported me and helped me through the toughest time of my life. Especially those who were there.鈥

Malachai, 5, was murdered by his carer after he was left with her when his mother was sent to prison.

The damning review of six government agencies found 鈥渃ritical gaps鈥 in New Zealand鈥檚 child protection system, which allowed vulnerable children to 鈥渂ecome invisible鈥 to them. Its author, Dame Karen Poutasi, recommended sweeping changes to the child protection, education, welfare and health sectors to create a 鈥渉ard-wired safety net鈥 and prevent further tragedies.

Malachi was murdered聽聽Michaela Barriball, who was jailed for a minimum of 17 years in June. He was placed in Barriball鈥檚 care by his mother when she was jailed last year.

After his death, the review was commissioned by the Corrections Department, New Zealand Police and the education, children鈥檚, health and social development ministries to identify any gaps in the system and investigate whether more could have been done to protect him.

Children鈥檚 Minister Kelvin Davis immediately agreed to most of the report鈥檚 recommendations, including greater information-sharing between agencies and public awareness campaigns for the public about child abuse 鈥渞ed flags鈥.

But he did not commit to the review鈥檚 more substantial recommendations: mandatory reporting of child abuse and automatic vetting of caregivers for children whose sole parent has been jailed.

Although he was 鈥渢ruly sorry鈥 for Oranga Tamariki鈥檚 failings, he warned against 鈥渒nee-jerk reactions鈥.

Mandatory reporting had been considered and rejected by three successive governments because of concerns about how it could swamp the system.鈥滻鈥檇 like to look at their reasons for rejecting it and whether those reasons are still valid,鈥 Davis said.

On Thursday, the same day as the report鈥檚 release, the review of Malachi Subecz鈥檚 care before his death showed a 鈥渓ong list of fatal errors鈥 and confirmed that his death was preventable, his family said.

鈥漈here is no doubt that Malachi would still be alive if Oranga Tamariki had acted appropriately,鈥 said the uncle and maternal cousin of the 5-year-old.

The review, published yesterday, listed a series of encounters with agencies, medical staff, wh膩nau and friends in which chances were missed to intervene and protect Malachi.

At one point, Malachi, his family and Barriball had 14 interactions with six agencies in the space of nine days, some of them on the same day.

When Malachi was placed in the care of his mother鈥檚 friend in June last year, the courts had no authority to intervene or even oversee this decision or to alert Oranga Tamariki.

Barriball then contacted the Ministry of Social Development to apply for a parent鈥檚 benefit - another instance in which her care for Malachi was brought to the attention of authorities. The day after she became Malachi鈥檚 carer, his cousin made a report of concern to Oranga Tamariki.

This report of concern was closed after Oranga Tamariki received assurances from his mother in prison that she had no concerns. A photo from Facebook that allegedly showed bruising on Malachi was not considered compelling evidence of risk.

Davis revealed on Thursday that three senior staff at Oranga Tamariki who were involved in the case no longer worked at the organisation, either leaving of their own accord or going through 鈥渆mployment processes鈥.

Call for family liaison appointments

Meanwhile, justice advocacy groups say the Government should be doing more to address child abuse,聽听谤别辫辞谤迟别诲.

Another organisation which supports the children of prisoners, Pillars, said the answer to child abuse would not be found in Oranga Tamariki alone. Two advocacy groups have written an open letter to ministers, calling for a family liaison role in each court.

Pillars senior mentoring coordinator Corrina Thompson said this person would be the first point of contact for a family when deciding how a child whose parent was sent to prison should be cared for.

鈥淲e do not think that all the answers will be found in Oranga Tamariki, but more so for the automatic process from the court to first begin with a wh膩nau outreach liaison role that would meet face-to-face with families and begin co-designing that care plan.鈥

Families needed to be able to trust the process, which needed to be mana-enhancing, she said. The liaison could then connect families to any necessary agencies.

Thompson said the vast majority of children who had a parent in prison were living with their mother or a member of their wider wh膩nau such as their grandmother.

She told聽Morning Report聽caregiver vetting alone was a rudimentary tool and could give a false sense of security.

Oranga Tamariki should spend face-to-face time with potential caregivers to get to know them.

Pillars also had reservations about mandatory reporting which it believed was too blunt a tool. Relatives had expressed concern about the treatment of Malachi but they were not listened to and nothing had been done to prevent his death.

鈥淲hat we are advocating for is a more wrap-around approach that includes a wider village of organisations, preferably those who already know the wh膩nau, where there is trust already established.鈥

Organisations including OT needed the resources to provide the wraparound approach, she said.

Ruth Money. Photo / RNZ

Ruth Money. Photo / RNZ

Family want detailed response

Advocate for the family, Ruth Money, said there were few surprises in the report.

It was heartbreaking for the family who had lived through 鈥渢he nightmare鈥 of Malachi鈥檚 death.

The family would like to meet with the Prime Minister and Children鈥檚 Minister to find out their response.

An apology from Jacinda Ardern and Kelvin Davis would be empty without a detailed response to the report so that the family鈥檚 ordeal did not happen to other families.

As far as mandatory reporting was concerned, it sounded like a copout if the Government did not introduce it.

聽鈥淭he system is absolutely dysfunctional... Mandatory reporting which has already been recommended before, it鈥檚 worked in Australia and it absolutely could work here.

鈥淲e can design a system that would mean we save our children.鈥

It was beyond belief that the discussion was still having to be held, she said.

Money was also critical of the lack of vetting of potential caregivers in cases where sole parents were sent to prison.

Meanwhile, the Early Childhood Council said some teachers were scared to report child abuse when they were not 100 per cent sure it was happening.

Chief executive Simon Laube said teachers had no doubt they needed to report blatant abuse, but sometimes it was a grey area.

鈥淚鈥檓 not sure I鈥檇 say mandatory reporting is required, but you need a legal protection for people to go out on a limb and report something where they only just suspect it.鈥

But it was not just about rules - Laube said teachers also needed support and training to recognise and respond to child abuse.

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