
A South African family鈥檚 7-year-old son with autism and epilepsy says New Zealand is his only true home, yet he now faces deportation because of his health issues.
Special school student Joshua Meets has a rare form of complex epilepsy, which led to his family鈥檚 residency application being declined.
His family of five have lived in Warkworth since February 2020, but their ability to continue to live and work here hangs in the balance.
The family had to meet multiple strict requirements to obtain a visa, including medical checks and job offers. Joshua鈥檚 mother, Ingrid Meets, told the Herald it wasn鈥檛 an easy process.
They were feeling optimistic about the prospect of gaining residency, but now their ability to remain in the place they call home is under threat.
The thought of having to leave everything they鈥檝e built keeps them going in their years-long fight.
鈥淭his turned me into a world-class hurdler because I鈥檓 just jumping from one hoop to another,鈥 she said.
鈥淚t鈥檚 not a Kiwi thing to do. It鈥檚 such an accepting society, but then we get pushed to the side for having a kid with special needs.鈥
Joshua Meets had his visa denied by Immigration NZ because of his rare form of epilepsy.
鈥楾his is home and this is life鈥
The Meets family had contributed to vital gaps in the workforce and community in the years they had been on Kiwi soil, Ingrid Meets said.
She is a commerce and social studies teacher at Mahurangi College, and her husband is an apprentice builder.
If Joshua were to return to South Africa, it would significantly harm his well-being and his quality of education, she said.
鈥淣ew Zealand just means freedom for my family.
鈥淚t just gives us all a new life, the boys can excell and they won鈥檛 be discriminated against. We are safe.鈥
Her three boys, Matthew, Joshua, and Daniel, have lived in New Zealand longer than they lived in South Africa.
鈥淭hey鈥檝e got no connection to South Africa.
鈥淎lthough we are a South African family and we still speak Afrikaans, they started schooling here, and they have their friends here.
鈥淭his is home and this is life for them.鈥
Meets said she never imagined that she would have to become an advocate.
鈥淲hen the system remains silent, I can鈥檛 stay quiet.
鈥淚 am Joshua鈥檚 voice, but also a voice for all the other families facing this bureaucratic nightmare.鈥
A and have been set up to aid the family in their fight.
The fight against deportation
Joshua鈥檚 family kicked off their time in New Zealand after they were all given three-year visas to enter the country in 2020 without any issues.
They said they did not know the severity of their son鈥檚 condition on their arrival.
He was just 2 when they were granted visas, and he was seizure-free after being weaned off his seizure medication.
After two years in New Zealand, he was diagnosed with Lennox-Gastaut Syndrome, a severe form of epilepsy.
In 2022, the family applied for the 2021 Resident Visa, a pathway to residence for certain temporary visa holders affected by Covid-19 and border closures.
Meets said Immigration New Zealand deemed Joshua was not of an acceptable standard of health and was not eligible for a waiver.
After multiple letters of concern, the residence visa application was officially declined.
In March 2024, they appealed to the Immigration and Protection Tribunal, which weighed up the case and found there were special circumstances that favoured the family staying.
The case was sent to the Minister for Immigration to make the final decision, but Associate Minister Chris Penk declined their appeal.
Erica Stanford, the Minister of Immigration, also declined the appeal.
Since then, the rest of Joshua鈥檚 family have been given valid visas that will allow them to stay in New Zealand until 2029.
Joshua鈥檚 application for a new visa was declined, and his current one expired this month, so now his family must make a final appeal on humanitarian grounds.
This decision will be made by the Immigration and Protection Tribunal, rather than the minister, Meets said.
Joshua Meet鈥檚 student visa application was declined after law changes.
What can they do?
Meets said they were well within their rights to appeal the deportation decision on humanitarian grounds.
鈥淲e have handed in our appeal document, and we鈥檝e got 42 days to complete, get proof and get support letters and build a case that we can now present.鈥
The appeal goes to the Immigration Protection Tribunal 鈥 now the family鈥檚 second round of dealing with it.
鈥淲e had such a good outcome the first time, and they said that our case definitely held merit and special circumstances, and even with that then we still got the decline.鈥
She said that with this appeal, the tribunal would make the final decision, and it did not need to be referred back to a minister, which might improve their chances.
Joshua Meets has a complex seizure disorder, developmental delay and is non-verbal, so he attends a special school.
鈥淚 understand that immigration is a policy,鈥 Meets said.
鈥淏ut I think there should be a more humane or humanitarian side to it. You can鈥檛 judge people just on a tick-box system.
鈥淟et鈥檚 say it was an easy ride for us and we get residency, and myself or one of the boys gets in an accident and then they need special schooling. They won鈥檛 be seen as a burden on the system.
鈥淚t鈥檚 just a timing issue. The Government knows what they鈥檙e going to expect with Joshua. So why is he being called a burden on the system?
鈥淚f they accept me to come for a very important role in being a teacher and being able to be good enough to teach Kiwi kids, then my kids should also be accepted in society just like any other normal kid,鈥 Meets said.
Joshua Meets had his visa denied by Immigration New Zealand due to his rare form of epilepsy. Photo / Supplied
The family鈥檚 life has been put on pause as they wait for a final decision.
鈥淥nce you lodge the appeal, it takes quite a while.
鈥漈hat appeal might take another six to nine months for the final decision. But it does mean that we live on a very high nervous system during that time because it just feels like there鈥檚 no finality.
鈥淲e can鈥檛 save money for a house deposit. We can鈥檛 plan for our future.鈥
Acceptable Standard of Health policy
The Meets family are urgently calling for an exemption to New Zealand鈥檚 Acceptable Standard of Health (Ash) policy, which they deem to be discriminatory.
鈥淲e call for the end of the discriminatory Ash policy, which unfairly penalises migrants and refugees with disabilities or medical conditions and their families, breaching New Zealand鈥檚 international obligations under the UN Convention on the Rights of Persons with Disabilities (UNCRPD),鈥 the family said on their petition.
Stanford said the Government strengthened the health requirements for dependent children of people on temporary visas to ensure more consistency in the immigration system from March this year.
鈥淚n recent years, a spike in enrolments of children of temporary migrants in our schools has resulted in an increase in children from this cohort with very high learning needs,鈥 Stanford said.
鈥淭his has put significant strain on an already oversubscribed learning support system, preventing other children from getting the support they need.鈥
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