
- Jemima Hawkesby and university friends of Flynn Mitchell are fundraising for a cure for Friedreich鈥檚 ataxia (FA).
- The life-shortening, progressive neuro-muscular disorder has no cure.
- His friends鈥 goal is to raise $30,000 for research through their campaign.
Flynn Mitchell said one the lowest moments of his life was trying to get home safely in his wheelchair in the middle of a snowstorm in Oldenburg, Germany.
The Otago University student had finished working as an intern at Ottobock - a prosthetics and orthotics company - when the motor on his wheelchair seized and he was stuck in sub-zero temperatures.
Mitchell, 22, wheeled himself home manually but when he arrived at his aunt鈥檚 house, he saw the ramp leading up to the door had iced over and was frozen solid.
Flynn Mitchell says his lowest moment was when the motor on his wheelchair seized and he was stuck in a dangerous snowstorm. Photo / Supplied
As he tried to get into the house, his wheelchair kept sliding backwards. With no one expected home for another four hours, Mitchell was stranded in the cold.
鈥淭here was no way I could get up there. It would鈥檝e been dangerous [but] if I鈥檇 stayed outside I would have frozen to death,鈥 Mitchell said.
鈥淚 finally managed to open the door but couldn鈥檛 get the wheelchair in, so I crawled into the house and pulled the wheelchair behind me. When I got in, I was freezing. I broke down and I bawled my eyes out. I thought, 鈥業 can鈥檛 do this anymore鈥.鈥
Fundraising for a cure
Mitchell, who graduated last week with a Bachelor of Entrepreneurship from Otago University, has Friedreich鈥檚 ataxia (FA)- a progressive, incurable neurodegenerative muscular disorder.
Billionaire Graeme Hart鈥檚 granddaughter Jemima Hawkesby, 21, is one of a group of Mitchell鈥檚 closest friends raising awareness and funds for research into the disorder.
Flynn Mitchell and Jemima Hawkesby on graduation day.
They have a team, 鈥淔or Flynn鈥, in the Lend Us Some Muscle campaign - to raise funds for future research and clinical trials.
鈥淲e are a group of mates in our early 20s from all over New Zealand, taking on the Lend Us Some Muscle Global Challenge 2025 for the second year running,鈥 says the blurb introducing their fundraiser.
鈥淔lynn鈥檚 one of the strongest, most determined people we know, and this is our way of backing him, and showing him how proud we are of his strength.鈥
Hawkesby told the Herald, 鈥淲e want to help Flynn walk again. Each team will complete physical challenges like walking, running, golfing, swimming, and yoga- sadly all activities that Flynn and others with FA can no longer do.鈥
So far, the friends have raised more than $16,500 of their $30,000 target.
鈥楳y friends keep me grounded.鈥
Hawkesby and Mitchell boarded at Selwyn College, Otago, in 2022 and instantly clicked, Mitchell confiding in her about why he chose to be in a wheelchair.
Says Hawkesby: 鈥淗e got tired of people harassing him and taking the piss out of the way he walked. He knew he would end up in a wheelchair and thought, 鈥榳hy wait鈥?
It gets to me when my friends say, 鈥榳e鈥檙e going on a hike鈥 and obviously I can鈥檛 go.
Flynn Mitchell
鈥淗e was like a fourth brother to me. Flynny is one of us - we forget he鈥檚 in a wheelchair. He shows up for everyone no matter what he鈥檚 going through,鈥 Hawkesby said.
鈥淚鈥檝e had to take him to hospital a few times because he鈥檚 been drunk and fallen out of his chair and banged his head. He doesn鈥檛 like asking for help, but he always takes time to check in on me every day.鈥
Flynn Mitchell says his friends are non-judgmental and treat him like a human being. Photo / Supplied
Mitchell says being around close, non-judgmental friends keeps him grounded.
鈥淲hen I started walking funny, before I got a wheelchair, quite a few friends dropped off.鈥
But his genuine friends stood by him - 鈥渇riends like Jemima, Jules and Xavier, my childhood friend from King鈥檚 College.鈥
Hawkesby - public relations leader for Antipodes - now lives in Wellington with her partner Jesse Tashkoff, an all-rounder for the Wellington Firebirds cricket team.
The pair caught up with Mitchell in Dunedin last week, when Hawkesby graduated with a Bachelor of Commerce and Mitchell with a Bachelor of Entrepreneurship.
Jemima Haweksby and her partner Jesse Tashkoff, an all-rounder for the Wellington Firebirds, at her graduation in Dunedin. Photo / Supplied
Hawkesby鈥檚 grandmother, 鈥淢ama鈥 Robyn Hart - wife of Graeme Hart - has donated to the campaign and told the Herald Mitchell is much-loved by his friends.
鈥淚 admire him and his 鈥榗an do鈥 attitude. One day he came to see me at home and announced there was going to be a drug that could reverse many of his FA symptoms. The look of hope on his face and the tears in his eyes as he told us was so special.鈥
Hart told the Herald her fondest memory of Mitchell was at her granddaughter鈥檚 19th birthday.
鈥淒rinking shots with Flynn in Dunedin - he out-drank me! That鈥檚 not an easy thing to do,鈥 Hart said.
Jemima Hawkesby on graduation day with her grandparents, Robyn and Graeme Hart. Robyn says Flynn is much-loved and respected. Photo / Supplied
One of Mitchell鈥檚 university friends, Jules Aitken, 21, accompanied him to Melbourne last year for annual tests, treatments and monitoring.
鈥淵ou never truly understand how much FA affects Flynn鈥檚 daily life until you see it. I got a real insight being with him 24/7. Flynn will never talk about it or complain but you see how much more difficult it is for him.鈥
Jules Aitken, left, travels to Melbourne with his friend Flynn Mitchell for annual tests and treatments. Photo/ Supplied
鈥淔or the Lend Us Some Muscle campaign we鈥檙e trying to cover the length of NZ, which is 1600 kilometres from the top to the bottom - 8.6 km a day. What motivates me is if my legs and feet are sore and I鈥檓 in pain and I don鈥檛 feel like a run, I think how privileged I am to be able to exercise and raise money for my mate who would cherish the opportunity to go for a run.鈥
The rare condition
Friedreich鈥檚 ataxia is a life-shortening, progressive neuro-muscular disorder, and there is no cure yet.
Flynn Mitchell and his childhood friend from King's College Xavier Wallace who is also studying at Otago university. Photo / Supplied
Mitchell鈥檚 heart is fragile; he has lost co-ordination and the ability to walk, and talk clearly. It鈥檚 the simple things he grieves the most.
鈥淚 used to be fully independent. I sailed, I could walk to the beach, play football in the park. It gets to me when my friends say, 鈥榳e鈥檙e going on a hike鈥 and obviously I can鈥檛 go.鈥
In New Zealand, as many as 1 in 90 people may be carriers of the gene.
Flynn Mitchell and his friends at Selwyn College, Dunedin. They are fundraising for a cure for his Friedreich's ataxia. Photo / Supplied
The diagnosis
Mitchell grew up in St Heliers, Auckland, with his parents, Scott and Gesa, and his younger brothers, Peer, 19, and Yonas, 18.
Gesa says when she first learned of her son鈥檚 diagnosis, she couldn鈥檛 breathe.
Flynn Mitchell grew up in St Heliers with his family, left to right: brother Peer, parents Scott and Gesa and younger brother Yonas. Photo / Supplied
鈥淚t is hereditary, but we don鈥檛 know anyone in our families who has it,鈥 she told the Herald.
鈥淚t was quite a process for Flynn to be diagnosed. When he was 12, I noticed he was skinnier and shorter than the other boys, but I wasn鈥檛 worried. Then he started losing his balance, and after he did the Ironman in 2013, he was struggling to breathe big time. That was the first sign of hypertrophic cardiomyopathy, which is part of FA.鈥
Flynn Mitchell struggled to breathe during an Ironman event. Photo / Supplied
Gesa describes her son as clever, kind, curious, with a big smile on his face - a lover of marine life. She said it was devastating to see him unable to do the things he loves most: run, cycle, sail, ski and hike.
鈥淵ou have to think outside the box. Last year, we took Flynn to the Sahara Desert. He didn鈥檛 want to ride on a camel because it wasn鈥檛 sustainable or 鈥榯he right thing for the camel鈥, so we put his wheelchair on the back of quad bike because Flynn didn鈥檛 think it was ethical putting a wheelchair on top of a camel.鈥
Flynn Mitchell in the desert. He travelled on a quad bike so a camel wouldn't have to carry his wheelchair.
Mitchell hopes to finish his master鈥檚 next February and start a business protecting the natural world and being among animals like his hero, Sir David Attenborough. He wants to fall in love and have his own family.
鈥淚鈥檇 love to be a father one day. I鈥檇 like to be able to talk properly and be able to dance on two feet and walk without having to rely on my friends to lift me upstairs.
鈥淚 would love not to rely on anyone.鈥
is an Auckland-based investigative journalist who won Best Documentary at the Voyager Media Awards in 2022. She worked for the Herald on Sunday from 2007-2011 and rejoined the Herald in 2016 after working as an award-winning current affairs producer at TVNZ鈥檚 60 Minutes, 20/20 and Sunday.
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