A Tauranga man has been imprisoned for raping his 8-year-old cousin. Photo / 123RF
Warning: This story includes details of the sexual abuse of a child and may be distressing.
A young man who was trusted to be among his young cousins 鈥渞ipped that trust to shreds鈥 when he repeatedly sexually assaulted one of them.
The Tauranga man was aged between 17 and 20 when he raped and indecently assaulted the girl, who was between 8 and 10 at the time.
She shared a room in the main house with her two younger siblings, while the young man, who cannot be named, stayed in a sleepout on the property.
According to the summary of facts, he would sneak into the girl鈥檚 bedroom at night, .
There, he would sometimes lie on top of her while showing her pornography on his tablet.
At other times, he would remove his pants and lie in her bed, kissing and licking her neck.
, and the last occasion was in April 2024.
Sometime during that period, he touched her genital area over the top of her clothes when she was in the living room.
On a further occasion, he indecently assaulted her while she was showering.
The man received a sentence indication in the Tauranga District Court in August, and was jailed this month for four and a half years.
Sometime in 2023, he raped her in the lounge, while her father and siblings were home but not nearby.
Sometime between March and April 2024, he indecently assaulted the girl in her bedroom and, in early April 2024, he raped her when her two sisters were in the bedroom.
And around the same time that year, the girl entered his sleepout and initiated sexual intercourse, which he did not attempt to stop.
鈥榃e welcomed you into our home鈥
The man, now 22, pleaded guilty to three charges of sexual violation by rape and four charges of indecently assaulting a child, having received a sentence indication in the in August.
Judge Melinda Mason adopted a starting point of eight and a half years鈥 imprisonment.
At the recent sentencing, the victim鈥檚 mother read a victim impact statement in which she spoke of her anger and grief over the loss of innocence suffered by her daughter.
鈥淚 am angry at you because we trusted you to be among our children, your cousins, and you ripped that trust to shreds ... we welcomed you into our home, not knowing the intentions you had.鈥
She was also angry that the man鈥檚 own 鈥渂eautiful daughter grows up without her father鈥.
鈥淚t also saddens me because we will always love you, but only from afar.
鈥淚 hope this time you spend between four walls allows you to reflect on every decision that you made, right down to stripping my daughter of her innocence, because what you did to her is not fair.
鈥淚 truly pray that someday we will come to forgive you.
鈥淎nd in return, you seek forgiveness from your cousins, myself, your uncle, and especially the Lord.鈥
鈥楳ild cognitive impairment鈥 revealed in psychological report
In sentencing the man, Judge Mason acknowledged the impact the offending had not only on the victim, but on the wider family.
She applied a 25% discount for the man鈥檚 guilty plea.
She said a psychological report filed ahead of sentencing discussed cognitive issues, which related to the man鈥檚 background.
Crown prosecutor Laura Clay said she had been troubled by the level of discount sought on what was a 鈥渕ild cognitive impairment, foetal alcohol syndrome and a relatively low IQ鈥.
She noted that some of the issues raised in the report, which included the man鈥檚 lack of understanding about his offending, seemed to be 鈥渁ggravating in terms of the risk that the defendant does pose at the end of the sentence鈥.
However, she accepted this would be a matter for the Parole Board to consider.
The man鈥檚 lawyer, Craig Horsley, clarified that the 20% discount sought was a global discount, which accounted for his personal circumstances, his youth at the time and lack of previous convictions.
Clay said she couldn鈥檛 take issue with the 20%, if 鈥渁 large amount of that is a reduction in terms of youth鈥.
Judge Mason said that, when she looked at all the factors, a 20% discount was appropriate.
This mostly reflected his youth, but also the matters traversed in the psychological report, which demonstrated that perhaps he 鈥淸didn鈥檛] have the ability to think as carefully or fairly as some other people of your age鈥.
The man received an end sentence of four and a half years鈥 imprisonment.
SEXUAL HARM
Where to get help:
If it's an emergency and you feel that you or someone else is at risk, call 111.
If you've ever experienced sexual assault or abuse and need to talk to someone, contact confidentially, any time 24/7:
鈥 Call 0800 044 334
鈥 Text 4334
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If you have been sexually assaulted, remember it's not your fault
Hannah Bartlett is a Tauranga-based Open Justice reporter at 九一星空无限. She previously covered court and local government for the Nelson Mail, and before that was a radio reporter at 九一星空无限talk ZB.
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