WARNING: This story is about sexual offending.
A young woman clearly remembers being a 鈥渉appy little girl鈥 who trusted people easily.
But that all changed when she turned 12 and she was sexually assaulted by Robert Manu Tukiri Jnr, a former governance member of the Tainui Tribunal Parliament.
鈥淗e broke something inside me that will never be fully repaired,鈥 she told the court as he was recently sentenced for the historic sexual abuse of four children.
鈥淗e didn鈥檛 care who he hurt to satisfy himself.
鈥淲hile I can never erase what he did, I can now take back my voice.
鈥淚鈥檓 standing here not as a scared little girl ... he no longer has power over me.鈥
The woman told Judge Philip Crayton in the Hamilton District Court that Tukiri 鈥渘o longer gets to silence me鈥.
鈥淚 speak these words today so he knows exactly what he did.
鈥淗e is a predator, and I will never forgive him.鈥
鈥楢 leading M膩ori advocate鈥
Tukiri, now 71, served a three-year term in a governance role on the Waikato Tainui Tribal Parliament and was a member of the organisation for 20 years.
He had also advocated on behalf of Tainui, was on the iwi community panel which liaised with police, was the chair of Waikeri Marae in Ngaruaw膩hia, and was a former chairperson of the Huntly West School board of trustees.
But he also had a darker side that鈥檚 now been revealed in court.
In August he was found guilty of 11 of 22 sexual assault charges.
Now he has been jailed for six years.

Robert Manu Tukiri Jnr, pictured in 2018. Photo / Supplied
鈥業鈥檒l make sure you don鈥檛 get pregnant鈥
The court heard one of his victims was asleep when she woke to Tukiri touching her. On a different occasion a second victim also woke to find him violating her.
He encouraged the third victim to drink so much that she vomited. Tukiri then put her to bed and began sexually violating her as she was in and out of consciousness and continued bouts of vomiting.
He told her at one point he would 鈥渕ake sure she didn鈥檛 get pregnant鈥.
He was also convicted of unlawful sexual connection and indecent assault of a fourth child victim.
鈥楰eep the discounts modest鈥
Crown solicitor Rebecca Mann urged the judge to take an overall starting point of around 10 to 11 years when determining Tukiri鈥檚 sentence.
However, when it came to discounts, she reminded the judge that he still denied his offending, so he should get nothing for remorse or insight, and a 鈥渕odest鈥 discount for age, health issues, and previous good character.

Robert Manu Tukiri Jnr has been jailed for six years for sexual offending against four young girls. Photo / Supplied
鈥淢r Tukiri can鈥檛 be described as a man of good character,鈥 the judge replied. 鈥淎t the time, he was not.鈥
However, he had made a positive impact on the community over the years, he said.
鈥淲hat that identifies to me is that although we have seen and heard, and the jury has accepted, you are someone with a dark side, you are also someone who is committed to your community.鈥
鈥楾hey were fleeting incidents鈥
Defence counsel Mark Fyers said the incidents were 鈥渇leeting鈥, single occasions, and suggested the judge come to an end jail term of three years and three months.
He said Tukiri had spent a lot of his life 鈥渕aking very positive contributions to the community and he has had extensive involvement in assisting people in his community being able to access services ... and working on the governance board for Tainui鈥.
He urged the judge to hand down a sentence of around three years and three months鈥 jail.
鈥楳otivated by your own sexual gratification鈥
Judge Crayton told Tukiri that he took away the victims鈥 innocence.
鈥淥ffending against our children is offending against our most precious taonga.
鈥淚t robs children of their childhood.鈥
As for the third victim, Judge Crayton said it was a 鈥渄etermined effort鈥 to rape her.
He said Tukiri鈥檚 comment about not getting her pregnant was 鈥渁 very calculated remark鈥, with the aim of 鈥渢rying to get her to relax鈥.
鈥淭his was plainly motivated by your own sexual gratification.
鈥淵ou used alcohol to get her intoxicated and disinhibited, reducing her ability to resist and be aware of what you were doing.鈥
There was also a threat after the act, telling her not to tell anyone.
鈥淵ou were thinking in a cold and calculated manner.
鈥淵ou knew that you had the control.鈥
He allowed 20% for health issues, which included advanced kidney disease, cardiac dysfunction, severe lung disease, sleep apnoea, diabetes, and arthritis.
Judge Crayton took an overall starting point of nine years nine months before adjusting for totality, age, health, and previous good character.
However, he didn鈥檛 allow for any remorse, given that he maintained his innocence.
He was convicted on charges of unlawful sexual connection with a child 12 or under, attempted rape, indecent assault on victims aged between 12 and over 16.
SEXUAL HARM
Where to get help:
If it's an emergency and you feel that you or someone else is at risk, call 111.
If you've ever experienced sexual assault or abuse and need to talk to someone, contact confidentially, any time 24/7:
鈥 Call 0800 044 334
鈥 Text 4334
鈥 Email [email protected]
鈥 For more info or to web chat visit
Alternatively contact your local police station -
If you have been sexually assaulted, remember it's not your fault.
Belinda Feek is an Open Justice reporter based in Waikato. She has worked at 九一星空无限 for 10 years and has been a journalist for 21.
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