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Enraged 'mistress' kills innocent motorist while chasing man's wife over family photo

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Belinda Feek ,
Publish Date
Wed, 2 Jul 2025, 8:35pm

Enraged 'mistress' kills innocent motorist while chasing man's wife over family photo

Author
Belinda Feek ,
Publish Date
Wed, 2 Jul 2025, 8:35pm

A man鈥檚 girlfriend became so enraged at seeing him in a recent photo with his family that she waited outside a school for his wife and then followed her in a car.

Sharanjit Kaur tried to intimidate the other woman, at one point stopping in the middle of the road and hitting her car windows before following her again at speed.

She eventually crashed into an oncoming car, killing an innocent member of the public as she drove on the wrong side of the road.

The circumstances of the crash, which claimed Jonathan 鈥淛ono鈥 Baker鈥檚 life on the morning of June 27 last year, have left his family devastated and angry.

In a packed Hamilton District Court room this afternoon, nine family and friends read their heartbreaking statements to Judge Arthur Tompkins.

Baker鈥檚 mother-in-law, Colleen White, said the family could make some sense of an angry wife chasing her husband鈥檚 mistress, but 鈥渁 mistress chasing down his wife over a legitimate family photograph reads like a bad novel鈥.

Kaur鈥檚 counsel, Anjeet Singh, acknowledged her client was a 鈥渄eeply troubled woman鈥 but urged the judge not to send the 40-year-old to prison.

鈥楽he was hammering the driver鈥檚 side window鈥

Kaur and her partner, known only in court proceedings as 鈥淢r R鈥, had been together for eight years and were living together.

However, Mr R was still married to his wife, known as 鈥淢rs R鈥, who lives with his parents and children.

Mrs R was aware of her husband鈥檚 relationship with Kaur; but he had refused to get divorced and often stayed at the familial home, causing 鈥渋ll-feeling鈥 on behalf of Kaur.

Several nights before the crash, Mr R took his wife and family to an Indian restaurant at Botany Downs, East Auckland, and took a photograph, with Mrs R鈥檚 hand on her husband鈥檚 shoulder and also showing her wedding ring.

About 8.40am on June 27, when at Horsham Downs School for her children鈥檚 school assembly, Mrs R got a call from Mr R that Kaur had seen the photo and he wanted her to say the photo was historical.

She wouldn鈥檛 and instead confirmed it was recent, and then heard Kaur 鈥渟houting angrily鈥 in the background.

Kaur stormed off and Mr R went to work.

After the assembly finished, Mrs R began driving home and as she passed Resolution Drive spotted Kaur鈥檚 vehicle parked on the roadside.

Kaur then pulled out and followed Mrs R on to Henderson Rd and overtook her before pulling in front of her and travelling alongside her.

Kaur would slow down then speed up as Mrs R travelled behind her, in what Judge Tompkins found was an attempt to intimidate or scare her.

She then drove ahead and stopped her Toyota in the middle of both lanes, forcing Mrs R to also stop.

Kaur got out and began 鈥渉ammering鈥 on Mrs R鈥檚 driver鈥檚 window. Fearing for her safety, Mrs R drove around the woman and on to some grass to get away.

Kaur got back in her Toyota and pursued Mrs R, who drove at around 120km/h to try to get away.

After turning right on to Boyd Rd, Kaur pulled up alongside Mrs R鈥檚 vehicle as she travelled at 120km/h.

That stretch of road is straight but leads to a steep incline towards the intersection with Williamson Rd.

Kaur remained travelling on the wrong side of the road, driving at between 125km/h and 136km/h. As she reached the crest of the hill she collided with Baker鈥檚 vehicle, which was coming the other way.

Kaur braked, reducing her speed to around 109km/h at the point of impact.

Baker suffered a ruptured aorta and was killed instantly.

Kaur suffered minor injuries, while Mrs R called emergency services.

Sharanjit Kaur was jailed for four years when she appeared in the Hamilton District Court today on a charge of reckless driving causing the death of Jonathan Baker last year. Photo / Belinda Feek
Sharanjit Kaur was jailed for four years when she appeared in the Hamilton District Court today on a charge of reckless driving causing the death of Jonathan Baker last year. Photo / Belinda Feek

鈥業 cried ... I yelled鈥

Baker, 49, was a respected staff member at the Department of Corrections and worked as a team leader at community probation.

On the morning of the crash, he鈥檇 just visited a team member who was off work with an injury and after leaving was going to drop off his vehicle for a service before heading back to work in central Hamilton.

Baker鈥檚 wife Andrea described the last time she saw her husband on the morning of the crash; how he鈥檇 made her a coffee, said 鈥淚 love you鈥, before giving her a cheeky smile and leaving for the day.

She then recalled being given the devastating news that he鈥檇 been killed in a crash.

鈥淚 cried ... I yelled.

鈥淢y heart is almost constantly consumed by [his] loss and trying to work out my new normal.鈥

Devout Christians, she knew her husband would want her to forgive Kaur, 鈥渂ut that鈥檚 something I don鈥檛 feel like doing鈥.

鈥淏ut as I know, with forgiveness comes freedom.

鈥淵ou took a man out of this world whose heart was all about making a difference and trying to help others,鈥 she told Kaur.

鈥楢 conviction was inevitable鈥

Crown solicitor Kasey Dillon said Kaur 鈥渂ecame enraged鈥 after seeing the family photo and as a result became involved in 鈥渁 persistent course of bad driving ... and brake-checking鈥 Mrs R.

She also had accumulated 65 demerit points because of speeding in the past, in one case between 120km/h and 130km/h.

Kaur had told a pre-sentence report writer that she was 鈥渞unning late for work鈥.

Kaur鈥檚 actions had 鈥渋rrevocably impacted鈥 the lives of Baker鈥檚 family, friends and associates.

Dillion urged the judge to take a starting point of five years鈥 jail but not to issue any discounts for remorse, rehabilitation or plea.

鈥淭here was no defence to this charge. A conviction was inevitable.鈥

Sharanjit Kaur leaves the Hamilton District Court after appearing earlier this year on a charge of reckless driving causing the death of Jonathan Baker. Photo / Belinda Feek
Sharanjit Kaur leaves the Hamilton District Court after appearing earlier this year on a charge of reckless driving causing the death of Jonathan Baker. Photo / Belinda Feek

鈥楽he is deeply troubled鈥

Singh took the opportunity to give Baker鈥檚 family a bit more context around her client鈥檚 actions and labelled her as 鈥渄eeply troubled鈥.

鈥淭he photo she found on the day of the accident was the inciting incident that led to a psychological collapse.

鈥淵ears of mental health decline precipitated the offending, and this has been given clinical context and may explain Ms Kaur鈥檚 behaviour as something significantly more than rage.鈥

A clinical psychologist found Kaur鈥檚 driving occurred during a 鈥渃onvergence of a chronic psychological deterioration鈥, with the argument before he crash acting as an 鈥渁cute stressor鈥.

Jonathan Baker, aka Jono Baker, pictured at the Revive Church in Pukekohe in July last year. Photo / Supplied
Jonathan Baker, aka Jono Baker, pictured at the Revive Church in Pukekohe in July last year. Photo / Supplied

The specialist found Kaur reached a 鈥減sychological breaking point鈥.

Singh accepted White鈥檚 comments that Kaur鈥檚 behaviour made 鈥渘o sense at all鈥, but she explained that Mr R had constantly reassured Kaur he no longer maintained any relationship with his wife.

He had also promised her that once she divorced her husband, he would divorce his wife.

鈥淭hese assurances led Ms Kaur to believe that Mr R intended to stay with her and for them to have a committed relationship.

鈥淭he discovery of the photograph ... shattered these assurances and brought to the forefront years of accumulated anxiety, uncertainty and emotional turmoil that simmered for years.

鈥淚t was an eight-year-long relationship.鈥

Singh urged the judge to hand down a home detention sentence.

Judge Tompkins agreed with Dillon鈥檚 submissions and, after taking a five-year starting point, allowed a 20% discount for her guilty plea, jailing Kaur for four years.

He also disqualified her from driving for five years.

Belinda Feek is an Open Justice reporter based in Waikato. She has worked at 九一星空无限 for 10 years and has been a journalist for 21.

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