When Lisa* called the police to report a serious assault by her partner, she expected protection and support. Instead, she says what followed was a series of failures, including police repeatedly telling her the man was still in custody when he had been bailed. Her experience left her terrified and questioning whether victims鈥 rights are anything more than words on paper. Senior journalist Anna Leask reports.
In September, Lisa鈥檚 then-partner Mike allegedly assaulted her, strangling her so viciously that he left angry red marks on her skin.
She called 111, desperate for help. But she says help is the last thing she got.
鈥淩ight now, I wouldn鈥檛 ever call them again because they have made my life worse, not better,鈥 she told the Herald.
鈥淎s part of my job, I advise women to call the police for family harm, but now I won鈥檛.
鈥淚 can see why women don鈥檛 call the police, and that is not okay 鈥 it is not safe.鈥
Lisa said she had visible physical injuries and was mentally distressed.
However, the police left her home in Canterbury without having her examined by any medical professional.
She claims they did not follow up or provide her with any information about what would happen to Mike, nor did they provide her with any safety plan or connect her to any support agency.
鈥淭hey just took him away, and that was it.
鈥淚 was hoping for some support 鈥 but they just left me here. They didn鈥檛 even call an ambulance. They did offer me a referral to the Cambridge Clinic, which I refused at the time. To be honest, I was just in complete fight or flight."
The clinic specialises in sexual harm, and Lisa鈥檚 assault was not of that nature.
The next day, she emailed police and said she would take a referral - for lack of any other support.
She said that, by the time the officer got back to her, she had contacted the clinic directly and had already been to an appointment.
鈥淲hen I called the police, I expected that wraparound service that I鈥檝e told thousands of women they can expect 鈥 and ongoing communication,鈥 she said.
鈥淭he lack of communication has been the most traumatic thing for me. I have had to beg and beg for information.鈥

Lisa said police left her with no support or medical help after the alleged assault. Photo / DepositPhotos
At 8.30am the next day, Lisa鈥檚 sister arrived, and they called the police for an update.
Lisa said she was told an officer in charge (OC) had been assigned and that no further information could be provided.
She was told to wait for the OC to make contact.
Soon afterwards, Mike鈥檚 brother sent her a message saying Mike had appeared in court and been released on bail.
Lisa assumed police would let her know 鈥 but no call came.
In the afternoon, two police officers arrived at Lisa鈥檚 house to film her video statement. It was only then that she found out Mike had been charged with strangling her, threatening to kill or do grievous bodily harm and threatening behaviour.
She said she explained to them that she was not in a good place and asked them to come back another time. She explained that she had not slept since the assault, that she was significantly distressed, so had taken a sedative to help her anxiety, which meant she was 鈥渘ot mentally capable of providing a reliable or admissible interview鈥.
She said police 鈥減ressured鈥 her for 鈥渕any minutes鈥 to speak to them.
鈥淚t was absurd. As if I wasn鈥檛 traumatised enough, they kept going on and on and I just disengaged.
鈥淚t was clear they just had no idea what had happened to me 鈥 just hours ago, I had been strangled by the love of my life.
鈥淚t felt like I was just a number, just a name in their game of cops and robbers. It has felt that way all along, like they don鈥檛 actually care that I experienced a significant trauma.鈥

Mike was arrested and charged after the incident in September. Photo / 123rf
During the visit, Lisa asked the police for an update on her ex-partner and told the officers she was concerned for her safety.
鈥淚 was told they were unable to provide one, they were just there to get the statement, and that, if the offender had been bailed or had appeared in court, 鈥榮omeone would definitely have contacted鈥 me.
鈥淚 thought that maybe there was a lag, that maybe his brother had been sitting in the court when he messaged me, and Mike was still being processed or something.鈥
She agreed to do a formal interview the next morning, and the police left.
鈥淎t 9.50pm, I rang 105 [the police non-emergency number] and the woman assured me that no courts ran on Saturdays in New Zealand and therefore Mike would be in custody until Monday.
鈥淪he said there was no way he鈥檇 be bailed over the weekend, that no one arrested on a Friday got out until Monday morning.鈥
Saturdays are generally considered a 鈥渃ourt holiday鈥. However, according to the District Court rules, 鈥渟ome do operate if a judge considers it desirable to do so in order to dispose of business鈥.
The Herald has confirmed that Mike appeared before a Justice of the Peace the day after his arrest.
Lisa was frustrated 鈥 and terrified that Mike would appear at her front door. She had no idea where he was, or what state he was in.
To add insult to growing injury, the police did not show up to speak to her on the Sunday morning, as agreed.
When she contacted police, she was told to take herself to her nearest police station.
There, she was told again that, if Mike had been released, she would have been contacted.
鈥淭he fact that nobody from police or the courts had phoned me meant, according to them, that he was still in custody,鈥 she said.
鈥淚 asked them to actually look it up, and only then did they confirm it.鈥

Mike appeared in court the day after the alleged assault and was released on bail. Photo / 九一星空无限
Lisa said she did not receive any formal notification or information about Mike鈥檚 bail conditions, or the charges he was facing, until the next Wednesday, when the OC finally made contact with her.
She said the whole process had been disappointing and frustrating. She listed her grievances in a detailed complaint to the IPCA, including:
- That she had tried repeatedly to get someone to explain how the court system worked, and that neither the OC nor the prosecutor would help her.
- That the police installed a safety alarm, but only provided the base unit and no pendant, meaning it was 鈥渇unctionally useless鈥 unless Lisa was within reach of it. Contact by both Lisa and Women鈥檚 Refuge about the issue went unanswered.
- That there were unnecessary court delays, caused by police failing to disclose evidence in time and the prosecutor being unprepared.
- That she was not consulted at any stage about Mike鈥檚 bail conditions, which she says directly contravenes the Victims鈥 Rights Act.
She said the delays had 鈥渁 very real and significant pressure鈥 on her mental health and demonstrated an 鈥渙ngoing lack of respect or concern鈥 for her as the victim.
鈥淚t鈥檚 just incompetence.
鈥淭he system is broken 鈥 I am the victim here, but it鈥檚 like I don鈥檛 matter. Where am I in this process?
鈥淭he police only contact me when they want something from me. It鈥檚 devastating 鈥 I think they think I am stupid 鈥 I am strong, and I have a voice, and I have never been so disempowered in my life.
鈥淢y situation was a single isolated incident 鈥 and I think about other women in different situations, I can see why they don鈥檛 call the police, and that鈥檚 not okay. It鈥檚 not safe - and that is why I am speaking out.鈥
In November, she made a complaint to police about the handling of her case.
鈥淚 expressed that the ongoing failures were impacting my mental well-being to the point of feeling suicidal at times. I also said the process felt unmanageable for me,鈥 she explained in her IPCA complaint.
鈥淚 was then told that, if I withdrew, the offender would either walk free or a warrant would be issued for my attendance.
鈥淭his was deeply distressing given the seriousness of the charge and the ongoing risk to myself and others and, in fact, felt like bullying.鈥
Lisa has provided a copy of her full IPCA complaint to the Herald.
She has asked the watchdog for a 鈥渇ull investigation鈥 of how her case was handled, including a 鈥渓ack of basic victim care, multiple failures to notify or consult me regarding bail, no ongoing follow-up or support (and) poor communication across every stage of the process鈥.
She wanted to 鈥渆nsure accountability for decisions and omissions鈥 by police and 鈥減revent these failures from recurring鈥.
鈥淭hese issues have had significant emotional, practical, and justice-related impacts on me,鈥 she said.
Police were approached for comment on Lisa鈥檚 allegations.
Superintendent Lane Todd said he could not comment on the specifics of Lisa鈥檚 case while it was before the IPCA.
He said police were guided by policy when responding to family harm.
He confirmed that part of the 鈥渋nitial response鈥 to an incident included 鈥渃ompleting a safety plan鈥 and 鈥渟haring information with others/agencies鈥.
Todd said any 鈥渘on-fatal strangulation/suffocation鈥 complainant was referred for a forensic medical examination. This was a 鈥渘on-acute service and will typically be conducted three-days post incident鈥.

Canterbury Metro Area Commander Superintendent Lane Todd. Photo / Rachel Das
鈥淚f a victim does not consent to a forensic examination, they will be advised to seek medical attention from their GP or go to their local accident and emergency centre,鈥 he said.
The spokesperson explained that police had 鈥渁 number of obligations to victims under the Victims鈥 Rights Act 2002鈥.
鈥淔or victims of offences meeting the criteria set out by s 29 - which includes offences of serious assault and offences where the victim has ongoing, reasonable fears for their safety - police must make all reasonable efforts to obtain any views that the victim has about the offender being released on bail and inform the court of those views,鈥 Todd said.
鈥淧olice must also notify these victims where the defendant is released on bail and their bail conditions.
鈥淧olice prosecutors use an app to arrange victim notifications for s 29 offences 鈥 there is a dedicated team who then carry out these notifications, although they only work Mondays to Fridays.
鈥淥n weekends and public holidays, it is expected that police prosecutors will carry out these notifications themselves.鈥
In relation to victim interviews, Todd said they must be conducted 鈥渁s soon as possible鈥.
鈥淔or both investigative purposes and to minimise the risk of memory contamination/forgetting,鈥 they said.
鈥淎s part of the assessment an officer makes as to whether or not a witness or victim is fit for interview, consideration is given to factors such as level of intoxication, any medications consumed, trauma, and whether or not the victim has injuries that urgently need to be attended to.
鈥淧olice appreciate that being interviewed soon after a traumatic incident can be an incredibly confronting and difficult thing to do, which is why gaining consent is so important.鈥
鈥淭he aim is for the victim to only tell their story once, in their own words, and because the VVS is played in court, victims don鈥檛 have to suffer the re-traumatisation of recounting the events later.鈥
Anna Leask is a senior journalist who covers national crime and justice. She joined the Herald in 2008 and has worked as a journalist for 20 years with a particular focus on family and gender-based violence, child abuse, sexual violence, homicides, mental health and youth crime. She writes, hosts and produces the award-winning podcast A Moment In Crime, released monthly on nzherald.co.nz
FAMILY VIOLENCE
How to get help: If you're in danger now: 鈥 Phone the police on 111 or ask neighbours or friends to ring for you.
鈥 Run outside and head for where there are other people. Scream for help so your neighbours can hear you.
鈥 Take the children with you. Don't stop to get anything else.
鈥 If you are being abused, remember it's not your fault. Violence is never okay.
Where to go for help or more information:
鈥 Women's Refuge: Crisis line - 0800 REFUGE or 0800 733 843 (available 24/7)
鈥 Shine: Helpline - 0508 744 633 (available 24/7)
鈥 It's Not Ok: Family violence information line - 0800 456 450
鈥 Shakti: Specialist services for African, Asian and Middle Eastern women and children.
鈥 Crisis line - 0800 742 584 (available 24/7)
鈥 Ministry of Justice: For information on family violence
鈥 Te Kupenga Whakaoti Mahi Patunga: National Network of Family Violence Services
鈥 White Ribbon: Aiming to eliminate men's violence towards women.
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